I get this.. I've put some form boundaries around first dates because I don't like how that feels. Yes it's ok to enjoy sex, but I enjoy it a lot more when it's with someone I have built a bit of a connection with. So when I'm dating.. first dates are limited to a public place, and I don't drink. We have dinner, or go bowling, walk along the river and get ice cream etc. And then I go home, alone. No exceptions. Sometimes it feels like it makes dating harder but the truth is it just weeds out dudes who probably wouldn't have stuck around anyway.
Yes! In a LDR men will need some visual stimulation and who better than the women he loves! I’ve been in this situation myself!
I get this.. I've put some form boundaries around first dates because I don't like how that feels. Yes it's ok to enjoy sex, but I enjoy it a lot more when it's with someone I have built a bit of a connection with. So when I'm dating.. first dates are limited to a public place, and I don't drink. We have dinner, or go bowling, walk along the river and get ice cream etc. And then I go home, alone. No exceptions. Sometimes it feels like it makes dating harder but the truth is it just weeds out dudes who probably wouldn't have stuck around anyway.