Ok I’ve never been able to articulate this so well. I am the SAME way, my mind can start to wonder soooooo fast during sex if the room is quiet. Even a TV in the background is better than quiet, although sometimes I’ll hear something on the TV and it’ll trigger my brain to start thinking of the dumbest shit while my husband is putting in 110% lmfao. Music is the way to go…. I blame my adhd tbh
This is a case where everyone is different. Some can form attraction to those that are not their type, and some never can Be very careful about forcing this. If you get into something committed and you are not sexually attracted to him, you could end up in a dead bedroom and really hurt him. Go slow and when things become sexual, if you still aren’t feeling it, end it. Stay friends if you can. But don’t stay with him just because everything else is good
A woman on all fours enjoying you fucking her is hot regardless of what she looks like, period.
Ok I’ve never been able to articulate this so well. I am the SAME way, my mind can start to wonder soooooo fast during sex if the room is quiet. Even a TV in the background is better than quiet, although sometimes I’ll hear something on the TV and it’ll trigger my brain to start thinking of the dumbest shit while my husband is putting in 110% lmfao. Music is the way to go…. I blame my adhd tbh
Fyi 6 is above average, my friend. Something like 90th percentile.
*files an opposing patent just in case*
This is a case where everyone is different. Some can form attraction to those that are not their type, and some never can Be very careful about forcing this. If you get into something committed and you are not sexually attracted to him, you could end up in a dead bedroom and really hurt him. Go slow and when things become sexual, if you still aren’t feeling it, end it. Stay friends if you can. But don’t stay with him just because everything else is good
My fiancé had those issues that he attributed to age (54) but it turns out he had a tumor on the nerve sac at the base of his spine. Not saying this is what it is for your husband but get it checked out! It can’t hurt and could save his life