he liked me for ages when we were friends (i didn’t know) and i gave him a chance – we dated for a bit last year then broke up and then we started dating again and slept together for the first time the other dat
Need a helluva lot more context here – was she laughing because she was happy? Seems like she got a lot of joy out of making you cum and that laugh was genuine. If you feel she was making fun of you, then that’s a deal breaker for me and I’d walk away. But why would your gf—someone you love and trust and are in a (I’m going to assume on limited data here) healthy relationship with—suddenly start doing that to you?
Right? And consider how a person like this would capitalize on that lie again. Do you think she ever used it as an excuse for anything? When she was a “rape victim,” did she bring her friends into this? Have they been lying for her? Has she ever brought it up as an excuse for anything else? When she didn’t want to talk about something else going on, did she ever say, “I’ve just been thinking about that night” or “it’s almost the anniversary” or any bullshit like that? Did she ride the empathy train during #MeToo? Did she post about it on social media? This is a huge lie that you know was brought up a lot in their 12 years together. It came up over and over again. And she used it for sympathy and understanding every single time. Yeah, there’s no coming back from this. There is just so much piled on top of that lie that there’s no just pulling out the lie and leaving everything else stacked that high. Everything that his lie touched is dead.
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he liked me for ages when we were friends (i didn’t know) and i gave him a chance – we dated for a bit last year then broke up and then we started dating again and slept together for the first time the other dat
No. I had Uninstalled the app but I just reinstalled to check. Says he's HIV negative
Thanks for the reply. Very helpful!
Need a helluva lot more context here – was she laughing because she was happy? Seems like she got a lot of joy out of making you cum and that laugh was genuine. If you feel she was making fun of you, then that’s a deal breaker for me and I’d walk away. But why would your gf—someone you love and trust and are in a (I’m going to assume on limited data here) healthy relationship with—suddenly start doing that to you?
Right? And consider how a person like this would capitalize on that lie again. Do you think she ever used it as an excuse for anything? When she was a “rape victim,” did she bring her friends into this? Have they been lying for her? Has she ever brought it up as an excuse for anything else? When she didn’t want to talk about something else going on, did she ever say, “I’ve just been thinking about that night” or “it’s almost the anniversary” or any bullshit like that? Did she ride the empathy train during #MeToo? Did she post about it on social media? This is a huge lie that you know was brought up a lot in their 12 years together. It came up over and over again. And she used it for sympathy and understanding every single time. Yeah, there’s no coming back from this. There is just so much piled on top of that lie that there’s no just pulling out the lie and leaving everything else stacked that high. Everything that his lie touched is dead.