We have three kids and we still have loud sex. They are 5,6 and 11. The two little ones are heavy sleepers. They sleep with a little lullaby so they dont hear anything. The 11 year old sleeps on the other side of the house. He knows. We’re very open about sex and show alot of affection throughout the day. So he knows to stay away around night time and to give us privacy.
The age gap is at play as well. An older guy (30) pursuing a woman 10 years younger. Younger woman has explicitly stated in the post that “he knows better” presumably because he has said so highlightingnhis life experiences or his age as a factor. So yeah, naive fits
Sometimes it's easy, other times it doesn't click. I need a little connection to get anything out of it. Jumping right in doesn't do it for me. That just means it doesn't happen too often. Traveling a lot gives me time. Maybe too much time to think. Sometimes I wish for a random travel encounter instead.
Not a real thing. There is zero evidence to support what you are claiming. Its one of the many myths about porn pushed by religious puritans. Porn is not addictive. This has been studied in depth from many angles and the result is always the same. Its not addictive in any way, nor does it cause the imaginary high you are describing. There are studies that specifically looked at the chemical response you are talking about and found zero such thing from porn, unlike gambling. Someone has been lying to you about porn and probably messing you up pretty bad along the way.
We'll second the “try to distract the other” idea. I'll work from home and try to answer emails or do work while she blows me and it's the hottest thing for both of us as I struggle to focus.
Do you say things like, did you cum? Come for me etc . In the moment, my experience anyway, was that I didn't want to hurt feelings. I faked it with everyone iv ever been with. Because they always ask. What if I was to say no? Iv said no before and they sulk. Not saying you do that .. just saying
We have three kids and we still have loud sex. They are 5,6 and 11. The two little ones are heavy sleepers. They sleep with a little lullaby so they dont hear anything. The 11 year old sleeps on the other side of the house. He knows. We’re very open about sex and show alot of affection throughout the day. So he knows to stay away around night time and to give us privacy.
Too soon, he didn't know you well enough and got performance anxiety.
The age gap is at play as well. An older guy (30) pursuing a woman 10 years younger. Younger woman has explicitly stated in the post that “he knows better” presumably because he has said so highlightingnhis life experiences or his age as a factor. So yeah, naive fits
Have you communicated what you would like with your partner? Have you tried watching porn together?
Sometimes it's easy, other times it doesn't click. I need a little connection to get anything out of it. Jumping right in doesn't do it for me. That just means it doesn't happen too often. Traveling a lot gives me time. Maybe too much time to think. Sometimes I wish for a random travel encounter instead.
Not a real thing. There is zero evidence to support what you are claiming. Its one of the many myths about porn pushed by religious puritans. Porn is not addictive. This has been studied in depth from many angles and the result is always the same. Its not addictive in any way, nor does it cause the imaginary high you are describing. There are studies that specifically looked at the chemical response you are talking about and found zero such thing from porn, unlike gambling. Someone has been lying to you about porn and probably messing you up pretty bad along the way.
We'll second the “try to distract the other” idea. I'll work from home and try to answer emails or do work while she blows me and it's the hottest thing for both of us as I struggle to focus.
Just had the best sex of my life, that's all I can say it was so hot.
Bluechew
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Do you say things like, did you cum? Come for me etc . In the moment, my experience anyway, was that I didn't want to hurt feelings. I faked it with everyone iv ever been with. Because they always ask. What if I was to say no? Iv said no before and they sulk. Not saying you do that .. just saying
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