It's possible he has death grip or just masturbates a LOT so he's desensitized. That on top of nerves and you've got a recipe for a dude who can't finish under pressure. Him saying he usually lasts longer seems to me like typical machismo for a nervous dude thinking he NEEDS to impress you with how long he can last when a standard sesh with foreplay would probably make him a sex god. Talk to him
If I was your age again I would get baseline hormone levels now and compare them every year with new bloodwork. Keep them in check so they never get too low. We let ours get too low and it affected too much of our lives. I thought I had chronic fatigue syndrome. I thought my husband had early signs of dementia. Nope. All caused by low hormones. Don’t go as long as we did. You’ll be happier sooner.
Ah, religion. Such a good foundation for relationships. /s Run dude, run. And put that “being a good christian” in the bin. Focus on being a good human.
I know I’m well and truly done having children, but full on surgery seems a bit much. I really like that this is reversible, but I really hope I don’t have to get it taken out! Haha I’m so worried that sex won’t be as enjoyable with it inserted – it’s honestly my only concern
Look into boric acid vaginal suppositories. I put one in the night after sex and it tips everything ph back into synch. You can’t receive oral sex for a day or so though. It’s toxic to ingest.
Lack of opportunity.
It's possible he has death grip or just masturbates a LOT so he's desensitized. That on top of nerves and you've got a recipe for a dude who can't finish under pressure. Him saying he usually lasts longer seems to me like typical machismo for a nervous dude thinking he NEEDS to impress you with how long he can last when a standard sesh with foreplay would probably make him a sex god. Talk to him
27 and 19 – that’s the real issue
If I was your age again I would get baseline hormone levels now and compare them every year with new bloodwork. Keep them in check so they never get too low. We let ours get too low and it affected too much of our lives. I thought I had chronic fatigue syndrome. I thought my husband had early signs of dementia. Nope. All caused by low hormones. Don’t go as long as we did. You’ll be happier sooner.
Maybe break up with her?
Ah, religion. Such a good foundation for relationships. /s Run dude, run. And put that “being a good christian” in the bin. Focus on being a good human.
I know I’m well and truly done having children, but full on surgery seems a bit much. I really like that this is reversible, but I really hope I don’t have to get it taken out! Haha I’m so worried that sex won’t be as enjoyable with it inserted – it’s honestly my only concern
Look into boric acid vaginal suppositories. I put one in the night after sex and it tips everything ph back into synch. You can’t receive oral sex for a day or so though. It’s toxic to ingest.
“fine”?
Ugh, missed the casual mention of cheating in there. She probably knows and shut down.
My bad. Talk about a power bottom.