As a woman, I feel physical attraction and desire for sex only if I am very much desired. Consider that both partners need to feel desired somewhat. He spent years showing her his desire. Has she ever made him feel desired in the last year? If someone has this raw passion for me my libido sky rockets. but his wife's libido hasn't skyrocketed. 3 times in 6 months but the fact that you still wanted her and didn't give up meant that she would go and have a craving from time to time. And now when that's gone, the guilt will increase, plus her chance of a happy sex life dies also. So what? He has needs too. He wants to feel desirable too. You made all this space her her emotions, and none for his. Do you have any solution that might make both of them happy? Or do you only care about one of them?
As a woman, I feel physical attraction and desire for sex only if I am very much desired. Consider that both partners need to feel desired somewhat. He spent years showing her his desire. Has she ever made him feel desired in the last year? If someone has this raw passion for me my libido sky rockets. but his wife's libido hasn't skyrocketed. 3 times in 6 months but the fact that you still wanted her and didn't give up meant that she would go and have a craving from time to time. And now when that's gone, the guilt will increase, plus her chance of a happy sex life dies also. So what? He has needs too. He wants to feel desirable too. You made all this space her her emotions, and none for his. Do you have any solution that might make both of them happy? Or do you only care about one of them?
Depends what he's into is it verbal dom or is it the spanking whipping sort like a dominatrix