I don’t think you should put yourself through anything that makes you uncomfortable. If there’s mutual respect between you and your partner then they only would want you to enjoy yourself. If it’s a question of you wanting to spice things up when he comes have him come somewhere else on your body after you’ve given him a bj. If it’s something you really want to do then do it, but don’t put yourself through swallowing for someone else’s sake.
Please OP, FFS, don’t ask her directly if she wants to have sex or not. You would have to be smooth and put the moves on her. Instead just ask her out directly. And use the words “go out on a date with me”. Just ask her that, and if she wants you, she will say yes.
I don’t think you should put yourself through anything that makes you uncomfortable. If there’s mutual respect between you and your partner then they only would want you to enjoy yourself. If it’s a question of you wanting to spice things up when he comes have him come somewhere else on your body after you’ve given him a bj. If it’s something you really want to do then do it, but don’t put yourself through swallowing for someone else’s sake.
Please OP, FFS, don’t ask her directly if she wants to have sex or not. You would have to be smooth and put the moves on her. Instead just ask her out directly. And use the words “go out on a date with me”. Just ask her that, and if she wants you, she will say yes.