Partner counts speak to a difference in how we view sex/relationships. Someone who’s had 100 partners views sex differently from someone who’s had 10. One is not morally better than the other, but they are different. People who care about that thing shouldn’t ask about it (there’s a thread going on right now where a guy did just that and now he’s upset over what he learned). Unless your partner expresses that they find your past sexual experiences a turn on, just don’t say anything.
Partner counts speak to a difference in how we view sex/relationships. Someone who’s had 100 partners views sex differently from someone who’s had 10. One is not morally better than the other, but they are different. People who care about that thing shouldn’t ask about it (there’s a thread going on right now where a guy did just that and now he’s upset over what he learned). Unless your partner expresses that they find your past sexual experiences a turn on, just don’t say anything.