How can I use this to like kickstart things a little bit?? I’d like it if things were spicier between us but this is a bit outside of what I know how to work with
I'm very easy to get off but my first bf never did it. I stayed two years anyway. On one hand, I did legitimately enjoy parts of our sex life without orgasm being a factor, and I was content to get myself off later. (I never faked it. He knew I wasn't coming, and I told him what needed to happen to change that, but I also told him that I was fine without it, so…) I stayed because overall it was my first relationship and I didn't think anyone else would be better about it than he was. I was also very insecure and worried that if I left him no one else would want me. When it did end (because he was emotionally abusive and it took a turn to physical) I quickly learned otherwise. 😂 In the 15 years since I left that first guy, I've never had another partner who didn't get me off at least once.
Yes and no, for me the sex can be great without orgasms and I know that it is very difficult for me to have orgasms even doing it myself so there is nothing wrong with the sex! Of course an Orgasm would be a nice extra, but it’s not the quality of sex that’s the problem you know? It’s more my body and mainly my brain probably.
How can I use this to like kickstart things a little bit?? I’d like it if things were spicier between us but this is a bit outside of what I know how to work with
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I'm very easy to get off but my first bf never did it. I stayed two years anyway. On one hand, I did legitimately enjoy parts of our sex life without orgasm being a factor, and I was content to get myself off later. (I never faked it. He knew I wasn't coming, and I told him what needed to happen to change that, but I also told him that I was fine without it, so…) I stayed because overall it was my first relationship and I didn't think anyone else would be better about it than he was. I was also very insecure and worried that if I left him no one else would want me. When it did end (because he was emotionally abusive and it took a turn to physical) I quickly learned otherwise. 😂 In the 15 years since I left that first guy, I've never had another partner who didn't get me off at least once.
Yes and no, for me the sex can be great without orgasms and I know that it is very difficult for me to have orgasms even doing it myself so there is nothing wrong with the sex! Of course an Orgasm would be a nice extra, but it’s not the quality of sex that’s the problem you know? It’s more my body and mainly my brain probably.