Your mind will calm down. Don't worry. Yes please seek therapy. We make mistakes and I wouldn't consider you a bad person based off this but please protect yourself. Screenshot my message jic you need something to combat those thoughts at night.
Before I was totally comfortable with myself and sex I said I didnโt like it but that was because I was uncomfortable with the r idea of being totally accepting of myself. And I think spend more time just saying like Let me rub your feet,,, oh here let me rub your back,, These non sexual gestures are what lead me and my partner to truly open up and through that I found out I needed lengthy foreplay to even be aware of my sexual self. Once I was able to pinpoint what could start that stirring it was easier to feel that. Before that I was not open to talking about it but maybe try more tickling of the back really everywhere and mAne her sure she knows itโs only to make her feel good and no expectations. That in itself wAs almost better for my husband cause he loved that Itโs a win win and worth a try. Otherwise it sounds like you need and deserve that and maybe itโs time to think about that
No one can answer that for you. Don't over think it and just discover the answer yourself. I know that's not helpful but don't stress about it. Enjoy what you enjoy and come to your own conclusions. You might not even fit into a label ๐คทโโ๏ธ๐
I mean I agree going down on her will get things going, but it seems weird to start there too. I mean just immediately going for the clit? Kissing seems like the natural way to get things started to me.
I totally get that for oral and fingering. There is direct stimulation mid intercourse though. Would this be a non-issue as well? Genuine question ๐
But everyone is different, I canโt say the same. Iโve had wayyyy stronger orgasms with toys than any cis person, and Iโve slept with male and females.
I know I'm going to be one of many to say this, but it sounds like you might not be a good fit. It's really hard for someone who expresses their affection physically to get along well long-term with someone for whom sex is simply not a priority.
Your mind will calm down. Don't worry. Yes please seek therapy. We make mistakes and I wouldn't consider you a bad person based off this but please protect yourself. Screenshot my message jic you need something to combat those thoughts at night.
Before I was totally comfortable with myself and sex I said I didnโt like it but that was because I was uncomfortable with the r idea of being totally accepting of myself. And I think spend more time just saying like Let me rub your feet,,, oh here let me rub your back,, These non sexual gestures are what lead me and my partner to truly open up and through that I found out I needed lengthy foreplay to even be aware of my sexual self. Once I was able to pinpoint what could start that stirring it was easier to feel that. Before that I was not open to talking about it but maybe try more tickling of the back really everywhere and mAne her sure she knows itโs only to make her feel good and no expectations. That in itself wAs almost better for my husband cause he loved that Itโs a win win and worth a try. Otherwise it sounds like you need and deserve that and maybe itโs time to think about that
๐๐ป I worship her pussy for my pleasure! I could be down there for hours!!! I literally make out more with her pussy than her mouth.
I disagree – I think their response is valid and possible.
Well nobody asked
No one can answer that for you. Don't over think it and just discover the answer yourself. I know that's not helpful but don't stress about it. Enjoy what you enjoy and come to your own conclusions. You might not even fit into a label ๐คทโโ๏ธ๐
… I'm not even going to ask her that
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I mean I agree going down on her will get things going, but it seems weird to start there too. I mean just immediately going for the clit? Kissing seems like the natural way to get things started to me.
i never have either ):
I totally get that for oral and fingering. There is direct stimulation mid intercourse though. Would this be a non-issue as well? Genuine question ๐
Youโre welcome.
But everyone is different, I canโt say the same. Iโve had wayyyy stronger orgasms with toys than any cis person, and Iโve slept with male and females.
Let them spend the night with friends…they'll have to be older, but it happens
I know I'm going to be one of many to say this, but it sounds like you might not be a good fit. It's really hard for someone who expresses their affection physically to get along well long-term with someone for whom sex is simply not a priority.
If he's doing that he certainly likes it