My thing is, if a guy is too ripped, he's not soft enough to cuddle. Do I find muscles attractive? Yes, as in they're nice to look at. But I'd much rather be with someone with no muscle definition than with someone too ripped to be cuddly.
He’s a nice one, I like him, you just gotta keep working on turning him out. He needs to feel sure that you are gonna want it, so just keep reminding him and give him verbal hints, like mention casually that now would be a good time to take you, etc. With enough repetition and consistency he’ll become comfortable enough. Also have casual conversations about sex, like ask him his fantasies and share yours so that he knows where your mind is and help bring out that side of him without having sex, just talking about it
My thing is, if a guy is too ripped, he's not soft enough to cuddle. Do I find muscles attractive? Yes, as in they're nice to look at. But I'd much rather be with someone with no muscle definition than with someone too ripped to be cuddly.
Shower sex is the way to go in this situation. Far less clean up. Dim the lights, light some candles and have fun
He’s a nice one, I like him, you just gotta keep working on turning him out. He needs to feel sure that you are gonna want it, so just keep reminding him and give him verbal hints, like mention casually that now would be a good time to take you, etc. With enough repetition and consistency he’ll become comfortable enough. Also have casual conversations about sex, like ask him his fantasies and share yours so that he knows where your mind is and help bring out that side of him without having sex, just talking about it