You said you did it with previous partner, was it a one time thing and you never did it again because you hated it so much? I’ve heard some people say they hate it (or something else) and then tried it with a different partner and it was night and day difference. You are under no obligation to do it at all, but if you gave it at least one try, then you could erase any doubts that it was the act you hated and not your bf. Just something to consider. But again, no one should be forcing you to do it when you don’t want to.
My man, you really really need to work on your self-esteem. A toy is there to help the two of you but it can never replace you. A toy is an inanimate object, you are not an inanimate object.
Nobody decent thinks that, GingerTube is right, its just a way to weed out bad dates sooner and establish sexual compatibility levels early on. And if he is THE guy, than you are just missing out on sex.
This. I'm a lady and this was my first thought. I would assume that in the moment, if you (safely and very respectfully!) exercise little control wink wink, she will receive it
You said you did it with previous partner, was it a one time thing and you never did it again because you hated it so much? I’ve heard some people say they hate it (or something else) and then tried it with a different partner and it was night and day difference. You are under no obligation to do it at all, but if you gave it at least one try, then you could erase any doubts that it was the act you hated and not your bf. Just something to consider. But again, no one should be forcing you to do it when you don’t want to.
Being bisexual isn’t a deal breaker for a lot of people
My man, you really really need to work on your self-esteem. A toy is there to help the two of you but it can never replace you. A toy is an inanimate object, you are not an inanimate object.
I got your picture and I don't care what your peers look like because you are beautiful to me and no one else matters
Why do you care? come as you are!
Nobody decent thinks that, GingerTube is right, its just a way to weed out bad dates sooner and establish sexual compatibility levels early on. And if he is THE guy, than you are just missing out on sex.
Much better
4 choices: 1 – r/Deadbedrooms 2 – r/openmarriage 3 – r/divorce 4 – r/adultery
This. I'm a lady and this was my first thought. I would assume that in the moment, if you (safely and very respectfully!) exercise little control wink wink, she will receive it