Just adding on to what others are saying, but adding that orgasm-focused sex puts a lot of pressure on people. Maybe you can talk to your boyfriend about prioritizing pleasure over orgasm; it might take some mental pressure off you if you think similarly to me. Good luck
I wasn't accusing you about being cruel or insulting (although calling him a douchebag for being annoyed with your patronizing him counts as insulting). That was a reference for the topic of discussion which is about how people frequently react to confessions of chronic loneliness. Venting about being chronically lonely says nothing about whether or not they're doing anything to change and says nothing about whether or not they're resentful or blaming it on anyone. It's literally just venting. You're literally being invalidating and dismissive and making shit up now. Maybe you should look up how to listen to someone with empathy. If that's too much for you, you could just not engage rather than going out of your way to be a dick.
Just adding on to what others are saying, but adding that orgasm-focused sex puts a lot of pressure on people. Maybe you can talk to your boyfriend about prioritizing pleasure over orgasm; it might take some mental pressure off you if you think similarly to me. Good luck
I wasn't accusing you about being cruel or insulting (although calling him a douchebag for being annoyed with your patronizing him counts as insulting). That was a reference for the topic of discussion which is about how people frequently react to confessions of chronic loneliness. Venting about being chronically lonely says nothing about whether or not they're doing anything to change and says nothing about whether or not they're resentful or blaming it on anyone. It's literally just venting. You're literally being invalidating and dismissive and making shit up now. Maybe you should look up how to listen to someone with empathy. If that's too much for you, you could just not engage rather than going out of your way to be a dick.