That's me too. I was worried when I first became sexually active with partners that I'd only be able to finish in cowgirl. Thankfully that's not the case, but I can speed up the process.
I would gather proof of any toxic text messages that she has sent you, and check if any of those line up to the criteria of “emotional abuse” or “psychological abuse” (a quick Google will tell you what those criteria are). Any Texts where she’s threatening you (“do X or I’ll do Y”), or gaslighting (“why are you overreacting, it’s literally not a problem?”) or demeaning (“You’re not cool/ugly/loser/stupid etc.” anything where she saying negative things about you. All of these are common examples of abuse, find them and screenshot them, then if it gets to court, make sure your lawyer has them. If a woman is capable of falsely accusing you of rape, she is certainly capable of being abusive, so begin building a case against her showing how abusive she can be
That's me too. I was worried when I first became sexually active with partners that I'd only be able to finish in cowgirl. Thankfully that's not the case, but I can speed up the process.
I literally communicated
Everyone has a limit … and boundaries, best you know each others before hand
I would gather proof of any toxic text messages that she has sent you, and check if any of those line up to the criteria of “emotional abuse” or “psychological abuse” (a quick Google will tell you what those criteria are). Any Texts where she’s threatening you (“do X or I’ll do Y”), or gaslighting (“why are you overreacting, it’s literally not a problem?”) or demeaning (“You’re not cool/ugly/loser/stupid etc.” anything where she saying negative things about you. All of these are common examples of abuse, find them and screenshot them, then if it gets to court, make sure your lawyer has them. If a woman is capable of falsely accusing you of rape, she is certainly capable of being abusive, so begin building a case against her showing how abusive she can be