You talk to her about it first, if she is receptive to the idea, then you can proceed. You might choose to watch porn on the subject, if she likes. You can start with hands or large dildos, whatever she is comfortable with. Invest in long lasting lube and be liberal. Get her nicely aroused first so her vagina is ready. She might be more comfortable with being in control and you just watching. Constant communication and feedback is always good
You talk to her about it first, if she is receptive to the idea, then you can proceed. You might choose to watch porn on the subject, if she likes. You can start with hands or large dildos, whatever she is comfortable with. Invest in long lasting lube and be liberal. Get her nicely aroused first so her vagina is ready. She might be more comfortable with being in control and you just watching. Constant communication and feedback is always good
How does wanting to wait for date #2 have anything to do with patriarchy? What about women who want the same thing?
Why are you sleeping with him at all? This is just incredibly depressing and rapey sounding.