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Nope, both my partner and I do the same. Just how we are built
All you have to do is ask. And make sure he knows that you want to make it better for him. I commend your desire make him feel like he makes you feel.
OP would you rather use your hand or another person to cum? Same thing for women.
Or devil's advocate – he's staying distant because he caught feelings too & doesn't want to accept it? This is why communication is key, so there's no grey areas.
Asexual men are like 0.00001% of all men.
Yes. This. 👆
GOD please I need it
It rubs the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again.
This
White button-down oxford dress shirt and black silky/satin boxers is a classic.
Thanks for response! One thing I’ve done that previous partners have really enjoyed, is pressing my palm firmly against their pelvic area (think of a handshake level of firmness). While she seems to somewhat enjoy this it’s clear the level of pressure is not enough. I guess I could press even harder?
“I killed her! I choked her to death! Ahhh!”
oh no actually gave up being nice a while ago
Got it! Thank you for sharing
Are you a man or woman? Age?
Thissss. Was going to be my recommendation!
Keep trying! Practice makes perfect.
I never understood why it’s such a sensitive issue to ask someone to shave. The person is willing to eat you out, suck your dick, eat your ass – they’re putting their face in the most intimate of areas – for your pleasure. The least you can do is meet them halfway and make it a more pleasant experience for them?
It just sounds like bad sex. You might still have attraction to women though. Don’t overthink it, just be yourself, talk to more people, and if you click with someone, man or woman, just go with what feels right to you.
Ok, but seriously, if I was in this situation and afterwards, the guy (or whatever) pulled out some sandwiches or food, I'd be the one calling the next day lol
Also don’t get hung up on penis size, you have more than enough to work with 😂 plus you are more likely to get oral/anal.
Other than giving you the same advice you're getting here, fertility people don't even consider you might have an issue until you have been trying for a year. Beyond that, a simple interweb search will quickly get you to professional advice on the tricks and techniques to get pregnant.
Ideally you would try stimulating and inserting things in your ass on your own before you go straight to anal. Start with a finger when you’re masturbating. Use a lot of lube. Then if you like it progress to a small toy or buttplug, then go progressively bigger. From your other post you seem determined to go through with it no matter what. So be prepared for pain to be a possibility. And please for the love of god wear a condom.
Had my first time after a date with a tinder match yesterday and it felt a bit like OP described (except I didn't want to to PIV yet). I think you're spot on with the feelings explanation. The guy I was with took care of me and was very attentive. He told me we were going to do whatever I wanted. Some things were very nice : kissing in the neck or back, a part of oral sex and clit stimulation. I gave him head and it was not bad at all but I felt no excitation when I did it. Same with giving him a handjob. Felt relaxing to do but not pleasurable. I kissed him because it's the thing to do but I felt absolutely nothing during the kisses. I think we are going to see each other again (we tried sexual things the next day too) but I don't think I can fall for him. I fell for guys before but it was never reciprocated. When I imagined doing it with them it felt very exciting. So I think it's all about chemistry. I know I wasn't the kind to fall for someone I met online and my affection builds over time and little moments of every day life but I was too impatient to finally sexually experiment. No regrets but I try to tell myself it will only better with partners I love and it cheers me up 🙂
That is a difficult one for me because my wife has waxed everything everywhere since we were in high school so I am used to that. I think there is no right or wrong answers here it is all personal preference. Many women seem to like tall men with harry chests and many men like smaller women who are smooth most places, that's ok. There are short men, harry women and there are people who like what other people don't. You can not be bad for preferring or not preferring something because you don't have much control over that.
Foreplay, lots of foreplay
Yup. A person could eventually be an intrinsic part of your life, without needing to be your companion. If intimacy is leveled with maturity, care, and mutual understanding, it can lead to strong lifelong friendships long after the fwb arrangement is over. Or it could just end. Could be neither really felt any friendship or romantic affection and the sex was just really good. Relationships are complicated and it’s all a dice roll at the end of the day.
What
Fingering isn't usually the most pleasurable way for a woman to orgasm. Rubbing the clit is.
You should never be forced to do anything! Initially I would have said sit him down talk to him and express your feelings/concerns tell him what you want/need/require and allow him to respond so you can get some answers as to why intimacy stoped. When you mentioned your forced to please him orally with nothing in return my mind went elsewhere. It time to leave!! He’s grown he should be able to communicate dont make excuses for him. If you need someone to talk to go find a counselor or do things to make you happy so you can get back to self the version of you before the birth control. I’ve been on bc and have PCOS and weight gain has been crazy after fertility and a baby so I do understand the changes. I felt low and hated my look so this year I’ve decided to get me back work on myself my mind/body/soul. Channeling my negative thoughts to posting ones & I will be active more change a few lifestlyle thing and working on loosing the weight.
Usually ive experienced the other way around. Staby staby aint loved by many lady but some will ask for it. Just be ready to ajust with her reaction or hell ask her how she would love to be taken
I should note that I don't use it to flirt with my partner. Though sometimes I'll say “I'm so hard for you” or other such things involving her.
We’ll you brought up divorce, and then he cried, and you backed off the subject. Furthermore leaving someone doesn’t mean you don’t love them. I don’t think I’ve ever left someone I didn’t love in a long term relationship.
I am a bit shocked about the judgy comments. And I'd like to add that age, sexual experience or the bodycount are not necessarily proportional to each other. The only way to improve your sex life is by talking about it with her. Sometimes that is easier in a non-sexual context. It's important to understand where a person comes from (positive/negative experiences, shame due to upbringing etc). Sometimes when you are inexperienced it's hard to tell what you like because maybe you haven't figured that out yet. But you could do some brainstorming together and figure out what both of you would like to try out together. You can talk about fantasies which turn you on, you could read erotic literature together to find out what could turn you on. You could take a step back from the sexual stuff and enjoy massages, light touches etc. just to explore what feels good and to get more comfortable with each other. If you want to make it work you probably have to be patient because this is a process and it takes time. It's also a chance for you to broaden your sexual horizon. If you don't want to make the effort or if you both can't find a healthy way of communicating, compromising and exploring then you should probably end it. The only things that shouldn't happen are coercion, overstepping boundaries and manipulation.
Doesn't sound like it based on your actions as you describe them. Hopefully it's just a hookup for the girls too so they aren't getting lead on and having you disappear after you get sex and lose interest in them.
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I as a woman would be disturbed if my BF would have done what you did. It is not about shaming, it is more about acknowledging eachother and talk about boundaries. I would never do that to my BF without him wanting me to.
My ex used to love it. I'm usually a gentle sort of guy but she would like it when I'd suddenly go from caressing it with a finger to a palm slap (not roughly though). I think it's because it's in pulses, the labia are suddenly given attention to and there might be psychological factors (the sound, the anticipation between slaps/taps or just something else).
Good god, what are they teaching kids these days. OP, being sexually attracted to your girlfriend and fantasizing about her is healthy, ethical, and normal. You have a sex drive and there is nothing immoral about imagining using it. Just make sure nothing happens without informed consent and if something does happen make sure you employ safe practices such as condoms and safe words.
My original comment said men are looking for women that can provide something more than that which their bodies provide alone. Women that listen, destress their man. Help alleviate some of the day to day stress. How do you see misogyny in that? Simply because I said cooking and cleaning? If I hated women I wouldn't have commented at all. Just leave you to the loneliness that you have created for us all through radical feminism.
She’s not pressuring him. She says she feels insecure because he passively aggressively ignored her question, making things awkward. That was immature on his part and if he hadn’t been a douche and just said “hey actually that’s not my thing” like an adult, she wouldn’t feel hurt. Again, not only is she not pressuring him, but she even gives him blowjobs and has to masturbate on her own, while he doesn’t even try to accommodate by helping her masturbate. From what I can read, seems like he’s a poor communicator and kind of selfish. So your comment kinda doesn’t make any sense.
Na, as a guy gets older he looks for certain things in a woman, and a 22 year old usually doesn't even have the flirting skills to get past the initial phase anyway (I'm a 29 year old dude, and a 22 year old girl usually looks like a stupid puppy when trying to flirt, sure it's cute but it doesn't really make me want her). Also, older guys don't “look for hints and clues to solve the mystery all the time” so if you're not at all obvious about it we wont even see you, older women usually take what they want and they know how to do it too.
Ive told him in the past that I felt like his needs matter far more than mine to him . I appreciate this perspective, thank you
It's 100% unfair, manipulative and hurtful in my opinion. But in a 12 year marriage with children there are of course many considerations. Would she be willing to go to therapy and talk about it? I think having a good and compatible sex life can make or break a relationship, and like anything else it's worth working on. There are even couples apps these days to help work on relationships.. My partner and I are trying the Paired app and it's already opening up discussions and there's been some growth. Anyway, yeah, I'm sorry about the BJs.. As a woman who has always loved giving, I struggle to understand women with that point of view, though I've really tried to. Even if it's not her favorite thing ever, I'd think she'd like to please her partner now and then. I was also in a marriage with a partner who didn't like to give oral though. My ex husband and I were together 16 years and had 3 kids. He may have gone down 2 or 3 times at the beginning, and that was it. Declared it just wasn't his thing, yet still wanted me to go down.. which eventually was one of those things that wears on the relationship. When sex is good it's not a relationship issue… when sex isn't good it becomes a relationship issue. Anyway, I left my marriage for many reasons 9 years ago.. not just sexual incompatibility but it was one of many factors. I have had several relationships since and will never settle for sexual incompatibility again. So, explore how you feel, what else in the relationship needs work or if you want to work on it or start getting your ducks in a row. Good luck.
Not really about the hooking up again or not, but you are the man! You noticed a situation that could have been very embarrasing for her and you took care of it so not to make her feel bad. Awesome!
blah blah blah cry about it
You sure it was not Amber Heard?
Bourbon and therapy.
Just tell her that you want to use toys and then go to a sexshop together or browse some eshops. Ultimately, it should be her choice, so she has a toy that she's comfortable using, not something to satisfy your kink about large toys, even if she can take it.
We all have the right to choose, who we will spend our time with, and decide who we are attracted to. It really does not matter, that everyone should be appreciated no matter the shape, weight, or gender they are. You need to find that one, who is interested.
That's interesting. Does it include beating too? I have that.
have been given a blowjob 🤨
AC/DC – thunderstroke
I don’t know if cost is an issue, but you could always freeze your eggs. I just got my saplingectomy and I couldn’t be happier. My partner got a vastectomy the week after my surgery and our sex life has never been better. It’s so WEIRD AND AWESOME to not ever fear getting pregnant. 11/10 would recommend. Disclaimer: I have 2 kids and am definitely done. Also, no hormones work for me and 2 copper IUDs stabbed me in the uterus so hard I was in constant pain and one cut my partner’s penis so… yeah. I was done w all forms of BC.
Okay great for you, this isn't the case for everyone.
You need to learn that sex is not the only way people show you that they love you. If sex is the only way she can make you feel wanted and loved then you are putting too much pressure on her and you're sabotaging your relationship. Now she has to have sex with you X number of times a week or your feelings are going to get hurt – that's not a scenario that gets anyone excited. It's a sure-fire way to turn sex into a chore for her. Cuddle with her, spend quality time with her, etc, and while you do that really engage with her and see how happy she is to be with you. How much she enjoys your company and your personality. That's love too. That's being wanted for who you are.
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My ex was like this and like you i never hid my thoughts. Eventually getting to the bottom of it, she saw me saying “I have just accepted fate” as a way of manipulation to put her under pressure to have more of the sex she already didn't want to have for whatever mental health reasons. Anyway long story short ; shes an ex ?
I find that way more men than women care about dick size.
can her mental issues be solved?
Seems it's more about you getting to play with the other girl? (I might be wrong there of course) Would you be uncomfortable doing it just with her? Perhaps this would be a good first step, before considering if you're up to share your man with her. I understand you may feel having your bf there would be a buffer to the homosexuality of the experience, but honestly I don't see the issue, and you'd surely have a blast. As long as he's also fine with it. If it was me, I'd be freakin on board 🙂
Are you totally straight or bi friendly? The husband is bi so does he expect you to play with him or does he just want to suck your dick with her and may e you plow him? More communication is needed for you to decide if your comfortable in this threesome
You called him a boy yourself, find yourself a man 😉
I am older and married but have the same problem. I want the sex ALL the time. My husband knows I have been 'seeing” men for 'coffee' and 'talks.' I can't get enough of it. I am from Russia and we are direct people. My parents are from Ukraine. When I worked at Jib Corps in midnight shift I would meet young men after work and take them to hotel. Sometimes more than one. I loved the young black men. I absolutely love to swallow the sperm so I made sure they poured it into my mouth FIRST. I even gave young white man his 'birthday present '. Sex is always on my mind and I MUST swallow. I love taking cock from behind while I milk another with my mouth. I don't know how to stop it or if I even want to. I also love when they take pictures and videos. I need to slow down and get back to normal things….maybe? I am 62. Is this normal and can anyone give me advice? I am in Russia now visiting daughter. I am surprised I can write on here and hope to get some advice before I go home. Maybe Mt email address would help more in case I can't get on here anymore. Stupid Putin has blocked almost everything. Anyway, I would appreciate help? [email protected]. my name is Lyuba 38D 29 39
This is not good lol
Oops. Got too caught up in telling my story and forgot to actually reply to your post. I totally understand not wanting cum in your hair if you know you might not be able to wash it out right away. Could you try and time it around when you know you'll have access to a shower? Like plan for it ahead of time? Not as spontaneous, but I think it could help. And as far as getting it in your eyes, I typically keep my eyes closed and then have a towel or wet wipes within reach to wipe off to avoid any drips into the eyes
Have you considered femboys? I know putting it this blunt is odd, but my friend has the the same qualms and his boyfriend is a femboy and they’ve been together eight months now, worked for him, maybe will for you?
Just give the partner a heads up that that is how your body reacts. It wouldn’t bother me as long as I knew ahead of time. Otherwise, I might think the sex was going so horribly it made her laugh, and instantly feel like I’d done something wrong. It wouldn’t be a turn off about you but about my performance (if I didn’t know ahead of time)
Depends who they r wit
Slow. Your. Roll. You need to apologize to her. She wasn’t acting like a horny teenager. No. There isn’t a “know better”, here. Yes. EVERYONE thinks this is okay behavior if it’s between consenting adults. She was acting like someone who cares about you and really wanted to do what she could to take your mind off things, distract you, and make you feel good. I’ve gotten down pretty much every time something tragic happens. It works for me. It doesn’t work for you. And that’s totally cool. But if you two have never been through a situation like this, it’s pretty cruel and inappropriate on your part to act the way you did. A simple “no” would have sufficed.
It just happens as a guy we don't mind or care at all, I don't have a kink towards it but i sure don't mind when it happens. No need to worry or feel insecure about it
Bullshit lol, you're on other subs talking about your regimen to produce as much as you can. This is just a fetish post.