If you masterbate a lot. It causes you to be less sensitive. If this is the case don't masterbate for a couple of days before sex. Porn as well. You could also try closing your eyes and just feeling instead of looking. This works for some people. There is also just try try try lol.
So you're into milfs? Yeah it's super common, for example…me!
So some of the people are other women too. So do women use protection with other women? The man will be a breeze to work with.
If you masterbate a lot. It causes you to be less sensitive. If this is the case don't masterbate for a couple of days before sex. Porn as well. You could also try closing your eyes and just feeling instead of looking. This works for some people. There is also just try try try lol.
You're ignoring the importance of a good mental connection. A giant dick attached to a giant dick is not going to be any good.