Say you are an experienced driver, but like that mean I shouldn’t put on my seatbelt? Even if you are experienced, no accidents and I trust your driving. The world is unpredictable.
Jeez. You haven't met many human beings have you? No one is perfect all the time. OP has stated that this is the first time they have had a screaming match (note – screaming MATCH – they were both doing it) in their relationship. 3 years. 3 fucking years. So get off your high horse. Not all couples fight at volume, some deal with criticizing each other, some are contemptful, some get defensive, some stonewall each other. All are way worse than calling someone a name or shouting at them. The sign of whether you should throw them out afterwards is how they deal with it in the aftermath and if it becomes a pattern of behaviour. Not whether, after some news that probably shook him pretty damn hard, he lost his cool for a bit.
Say you are an experienced driver, but like that mean I shouldn’t put on my seatbelt? Even if you are experienced, no accidents and I trust your driving. The world is unpredictable.
Jeez. You haven't met many human beings have you? No one is perfect all the time. OP has stated that this is the first time they have had a screaming match (note – screaming MATCH – they were both doing it) in their relationship. 3 years. 3 fucking years. So get off your high horse. Not all couples fight at volume, some deal with criticizing each other, some are contemptful, some get defensive, some stonewall each other. All are way worse than calling someone a name or shouting at them. The sign of whether you should throw them out afterwards is how they deal with it in the aftermath and if it becomes a pattern of behaviour. Not whether, after some news that probably shook him pretty damn hard, he lost his cool for a bit.