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1. Will I still be ‘tight’ like one?… Oh man is this what’s being taught. Idk OP maybe pick up a biology book learn a little about women’s/your own body before doing any of this. If you’re relaxed and aroused you shouldn’t be ‘tight’ or in much pain. Idk why girls are taught that it’s normal to be tight

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2. I am guilty of running towards red flags because I almost want the challenge that I can handle a difficult man. If a man is kind, respectful etc I honestly feel bored or I think its an act. Recently I turned around to some men in my life and I told them I will not be participating in sex unless the person truly loves me. Interestingly I felt alot of power in this even though I have been given the messaging that sleeping around with different men is the embodiment of empowering. I now need to honour this promise and not cave due to feeling lonely or frustrated. I think this is the start of 'healing' because I choose to allow men that weren't worthy of me access to me on a vulnerable level. Part of me thought if I can let a man get away with anything then they will want me because why would a man want boundaries? I don't want to tell someone what they can and cannot do. Although in reality humans like having boundaries as it's stability. I have found I trust men pretty easily when it comes to generic everyday things but when it gets sexual I end up feeling distressed. I'll get there, ultimately no man asked me not to have boundaries etc the only person who did that was myself. I found your insight about it being survival helped though! I didn't think about it like that for some reason. I find there are two types of 'dangerous' men – 1. the ones that mean to do harm intentionally cause they want to see you suffer 2. Those that are ignorant and just act without thinking. I should add this distrust can be applied to women aswell, I don't mean to offend as I'm aware its only some men and not every guy. I need to rewire my brain so i prefer kind, respectful and people with strong values/behaviour that shows this. Without feeling inferior to these people because thats another barrier to these people.

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3. It’s hard to answer this without knowing specifics of the role play you’re planning, but best thing I can think of is to agree on a safe word. In any situation, on any day, if one partner uses the safe word then the other needs to stop and discuss what’s happening.

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4. It's true. You did not consent to have anal sex, that's rape.

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5. yes but it doesn’t make them any less bisexual. they have preferences but that doesn’t make them “more lesbian” or “more straight”

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6. Few tips for next time from a chick that gets mad if she doesn't get off 😅 🌏 Finger first!! That's foreplay, and foreplay is before sex. Also don't forget to find the clit, it's usually a bean at the top below the public hair area. If you have trouble finding it, just ask, it's less stress for everyone involved and we'll just direct your hand to where it is. 🌏If you're worried about your time, cockrings, numbing gels and even condoms can help delay you. If you use a numbing cream I do suggest putting a condom over because you can numb your partner as well. 🌏GOOGLE! Do research on tips and tricks, foreplay, moves, ect. Idk if it's just a female thing but that's how I taught most myself most stuff, I had a question I popped it into google. You can also get sex books and if you wanna go the step further your doctor or a sex therapist. 🌏If you're not sure in the moment what she like, then ask, nothing hotter than someone actually wanting to please you. 🌏Jerk off an hour before, then you've already emptied the initial champer and may have more time while it reloads

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7. I know, and that’s true. I just want to try to be as safe as possible while also have a happy life.

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8. Put her first. Give her head (more instructions to follow) finger her, get her turned on and engage in foreplay first. The vagina is lower than where a dick is (BUT HIGHER THAN THE BUTTHOLE!!) go slow with her. Ask her questions, no matter how silly. “Does this feel good?” “Does this hurt” “what feels better?” “What do you want more of?” “Do you want me to go faster?” You’ll also find your rhythm with your hips but it’ll take a few tries. Be ready for a queef or two. That’s what happens when air escapes the vagina. It’s normal and you two can laugh about IT, not at her. Also, CONSENT!!! Ask her if she is okay with it. Tell her if she wants to stop at any time to tell you. Sex is with two people. If she wants to stop or you want to stop, that’s totally okay. Vagina is the canal. Look up some anatomy stuff online, you’ll get tremendous help from that. Inside the vagina is the g spot, or the “feel good spot.” When you finger her, that’ll be your goal to hit. The clitoris is above the vagina, and may be harder to find. I’d look up again, more anatomy to help you. The FAQ for this subreddit has LOTS of stuff that might help you. Size can matter. But usually not. It’s not something I would worry about. Foreplay. Touch her body, her boobs, kiss her neck, cheeks, collarbones. If you’re both okay with it I’d suck on her boobs and GENTLY play with them. Squeezing a titty too hard can hurt. If she wants, let her grind against you. Ask her questions about what she would like. When you’re both ready, you can slide off her shorts and start kissing her over her underwear. Kiss where she reacts the most, where she’s the most sensitive. (Most likely around her clit area, that’ll be helpful.) you can rub over her panties too, but be gentle. Ask if she wants you to put more pressure or not. Kiss and lick her inner thighs. Give her compliments. When you and her are both ready, take off her underwear. Press kisses against her labia. Use your fingers to separate the labia (gently) and look for the clit. It’ll usually protrude a little bit and it’ll be noticeable. Start with wide-tongue licks from her vulva to her clit, get her wet with your spit. It makes for good lube. Increase your pressure and focus more and more on her clit. The clit has (I think) 10,000 nerve endings. It’s incredibly sensitive is like the tip of your dick but the girl version. DO NOT bite or use teeth unless she wants you to. When she is ready to be fingered, take your middle finger (ensure all your nails are trimmed and filed with no sharp edges) and slowly glide it in to her vagina. Make a beckoning motion (like ‘come here’) with your finger. My favorite treat is when my boyfriend uses his arm and goes in and out and curls. (To clarify, when he pushes his finger in he curls) She might want it more rough or less rough. But start out more gentle and careful. If she is okay with it, enter two fingers. (Middle and ring finger) and do the same thing. If it hurts then stop. If she says she likes something, I repeat, DO NOT CHANGE WHAT YOU ARE DOING!!!!! That means whatever pace you are going at is absolutely perfect. Do not change it. You’ll get her to cum that way. If you want, you can do the fingers and tongue combo. (Lick her clit and finger her) Always use a condom or some form of birth control. Girls can get pregnant whether or not it’s her first time. Don’t use two condoms at once. Just one is fine. Make sure you buy some that fit!! There’s sizing charts online (and in the subreddit FAQ I believe) that can help you out. My personal favorite are the ones with spermicidal lube. In the event the condom were to have a hole or break, there’s spermicide in the lube to kill the sperm. Lube is your best friend. Listen to her. She’ll tell you what she likes. Be attentive and ask questions. Also explain that it’s your first time, and that you’re not totally sure how it all works. She’ll guide you and help you out. Good luck dude!

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9. Sex should not result in an ER visit. I still support her seeing a doctor first. and ensuring nothing medical is going on first.

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10. You're lucky to have such a loyal partner to be honest. Respectfully, sometimes fantasies are better in one's imagination than reality. It's quite a risk. Neither of you need be ashamed by it though.

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11. Oh ok, thanks

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12. A few times a week would likely be sufficient.

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