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I can stop myself from cumming if I stop fucking you, but then your orgasm will be ruined as well. Instead, I try to keep going for as long as I can after I cum to get you across the finish line. Sometimes, if I'm really turned on, I can keep going until I cum again.
you were wrong to push her into it when she visibly wasnt that willing. These are the things you should talk beforehand, and let the fantasy grow a bit, if ever.
“Hey, yesterday was fun. Wanna maybe come over later ?”
LOL I was just joking! Of course he is allowed to say no for whatever reason and even if he doesn’t have a reason that’s okay too! Consent is important on both ends!
Definitely would recommend seeing a doctor to ensure he is in good cardiovascular health. Apart from that, blue e chew has the same ingredients as Viagra and Cialis without the stigma behind it
To feel like you're being dominated. It makes you feel vulnerable to their strength.
What that other person said is not necessarily true. I watch pretty vanilla porn, but it just feels like a very personal thing that I don’t feel comfortable sharing. It’s kind of like masturbating. It feels like a very personal thing that I do in my own privacy by myself, that I don’t feel comfortable doing in front of my partner with them watching. It just makes me, and some men not feel comfortable sharing porn with a partner. It has nothing to due with being ashamed of really weird shit.
It depends personally me, no not at all ive tried tiny things I've tried everything to like it but it hurts so bad. I've had a lot of women swear by jt but it's kinda gross but I have a bad hemmhroid from trying just a pinky and I bled everywhere it hurt sk bad. I've had people tell me once it's I'm it'll feel good and not hurt but that's never been the case for me I don't understand how people can do that nothing wrong with it just, ow
Ask him out !! It will stroke his ego and demonstrates your confidence. Make it casual- ask if he wants to grab one quick drink after work.
I like the we vibe tango. Slightly larger than a tube of lipstick.
For reference.. anybody is allowed to stop sex at any point… for any or no reason at all! Its not rude or insensitive.
Which meds are you on? Asking for a friend.
Yes! I’m very fortunate things went so well and I appreciate the people here giving some great advice! 💙💙
I was used by 3 old boys from the age of 5 until the family moved away but before 6 I knew that I loved feeling their cum inside of me and those older men who knew it would have my ass riding them because I was the one asking for it never told but they couldn't get me to stop asking for it
“She's trading sex for grades” seems pretty jaded tbh
Yippee I try to. Last time I tried to wake him up like that. I knew he liked skirts so I put one on & laid down on him with my butt near his face. I gave him head like that but I also gave him an elbow by mistake so there's that. Do you guys really like be woken up like that sometimes or?
He's embarrassed,make it up to him by pleasuring him.
Not MY president
My husband is now boarding the I want you to have a better experience train! I’m so excited!
I feel sad for you… I think you may be oversaturated with too much sexual stimulus… You need to go back to the basics dear. Talk to your wife, and start looking at sex like it's a brand new activity for you. Learn to kiss again, how to be a good lover for her. And quit watching porn altogether. Baby steps. If that won't work, time to seek professional help from a sex therapist. Don't let your ego get in the way, please. It could be a very viable solution.
I have IBS badly. I’d have shit on him, literally. That’ll teach someone a lesson fast 😂
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By the sound of things, you'd probably benefit from a Valium though. Even just a tablet..
Do you really want to spend your life with someone who treats you like this? If you read back what you wrote, but think of it as a friend of yours telling you the story of how her partner treats her, what would you tell her?
Forced perspective- a technique that employs optical illusion to make an object appear farther away, closer, larger or smaller than it actually is
They were RADICALLY less expensive than my regular pharmacy….like by a factor of 100
he is toxic. u did right
Say goodbye
This is crazy Wierd and dangerous even deadly….
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I like it when the guy asks, otherwise I wouldn't know what he wanted.
Have a couple of babies
So I'm a bigger woman, I have curves, lumps, bumps, whatever you call them and for a long time I did have hangups about my body image, would I be attractive to a partner, would it feel good for them when we have sex and many other thoughts. As hard as it is to hear this, it is something she will have to work through in her own time. In my experience however, what I'd recommend is reassuring her how attractive and sexy you find her, perhaps discussing the sorts of things you'd like to try, and she'd be comfortable with, even if it's just starting with some kissing and heavy petting. Beyond that, suggesting dimming the lights, or having her wear some lingerie, that can cover any areas she is conscious of, but still feel sexy in, can work wonders, and did for me. Beyond all that, seeking professional advice would be my next recommendation.
I personally moan like a motherfucker
Love it, you got to be sensitive though and abstain from masturbation to really enjoy it. So many guys can't even cum from a blowjob they'd probably feel nothing from a boob job or an ass job
I think in my culture is. And what I can’t say for sure, rarely it comes from ill motives. Sometimes they genuinely don’t know. If I had to guess, I think that’s due the fact that they are biased.
That’s really awesome. I’m gonna do some reading about it, it would be heaven if we could trigger this for my partner too! With two of these experiences under my belt now, my guess to how it happens is: it seems like it’s brought on by completely “letting go”—like no longer caring about how you look/sound, what you’re doing (if it might look weird or silly to another person), just like…immersion. What do you think? Is it something like that for you or is it brought on completely by a certain stimulation?
Question, how long does sex last? When I have sex with my partner, beginning kisses to ending cuddle it lasts 1.5-2 hours. That includes usually 10 minutes of caressing, 30 minutes of various oral things, and 45 minutes of penetration. During the quarantine we did that 3 times a day sometimes but we were worn out, because 4-6 hours of sex a day is a long time to be horizontal during the day. Now we do 1-2 times a week and it is plenty satisfying because it is so long and multi-orgasmic every time. Anyways how long is your sex?
You live and you learn, edging should be discussed beforehand. It might go much better next time if she has an idea what you are going for.
Honestly same… or he’ll be doing it at the same time.
Hi there, lesbian here, I do have some dildos and I find having either lube or a condom does help in some ways (easier to enter) Silicone that is the material that the dildos are made from are abit weird in our bodies so, also, size angle and position also are factors Hope this helped 😀
I was going to respond but then Iooked at your post history. Yikes. Lotta weird misogyny in there. Fun fact, since you mentioned it: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-17693480
He's being nice about it and you're still not happy 😂
Do not see this guy again. What he did was practically assault and you deserve much better love. Don't ever allow someone to treat you like this. The first time you tell them not to do something and they try to do it anyway, you leave. A man that can push past your boundaries has no care for your well-being. This pisses me off completely as a gentleman.
Why must there be tension between the sisters? Triads exist. And why should the family care? This all goes back to why the taboo?
Why without lube? Your asking for cuts/infection without proper lubrification
Over one time? Knowing that he's on medication that makes it hard to climax ? Knowing that men tend to over worry when it comes to sex ? Really? Either there's more issues in your relationship, or you're not trying to understand why he shusshed you. If he just wanted to get off, trust me, it would have been much easier to use his hand.
Personally, I’ve only swallowed when I have a deep connection with a man, and I can count those men on one hand. It’s up to you, really. No shame if you don’t like it or it doesn’t feel comfortable to you. Do what feels good to you! My advice is: try it once and see how you feel about it.
He was mainly asking if its normal. Not how to get his partner to have multiple orgasms.
Sure, Jan.
I like the advent calendar idea, thanks!
I'm surprised that anyone's saying yes. Anything authentic is hot. Pretty much doesn't matter what.
You are assuming the question is stated “tell Me this thing about you, I will stay no matter what your answer is” Lots of people ask questions for the exact purpose of finding out compatibility
He should leave you, what are you on about? Don’t try to persuade him because you will destroy the relationship. Break up with him and go fulfil your fantasies.
I think he may be thinking of the Amazon position, where it can seem like the woman is fucking the man because she does the thrusting.
Right ? I’ve been laughing my whole life about the “only guys have a high sex drive” lie. From 14-29 all my sex drive was so insane. It still is now but I suffer from endometriosis issues so it can be a bit of a mood killer. The only thing that made me feel happy about my sex drive was finding a partner who is a respectful, responsible, giving and his sex drive matched mine. We generally have sex 5-7 days a week.
I see. thanks for answering
Well I don’t mind having a drink, however boyfriend doesn’t want to drink lately so that’s kind of the problem.
Cool story
i’m so sorry this happened to you op, seems like he kept his red flags all wrapped up for you until this night. you absolutely were not rude in the slightest as his behaviour in the situation is vile. his comment about you finishing what you started as well as pushing your head down? big no. this guy isn’t what you or your friend thought he was and i’d honestly consider blocking/no contact from now on and recommending your friend do the same. i cant even begin to think about his penis situation, i’m trying to fathom how anyone would think that’s ok and even expects you to put it anywhere near your mouth. christ. you dodged a big bullet by just leaving, but maybe a little text telling him what happened and that he should see a doctor before blocking might be a good idea
Alright let me give you a positive light. You are 5'7″ There are a lot of guys that are shorter. Your dick is actually bigger than the average 5 inch. If you're overweight you can make a journey to change that to your liking and you should. If you are not having opportunities to socialize you should change that too. That is how you will meet people and increase your chances. You are 28 and still a virgin, that can be seen as a good thing too. Like as an example, I had a troubled childhood. I ended up resorting to sex to run away from my pains. Now I'm 32 I'm a bit sad I let sex consume so much of my energy on my 20s. I'm kind of disapointed I had so many sexual partners too. Wish I was more stable throughout my 20s with my sexual energy. Also learn how to be an assertive communicator, that is going to help you with girls.
This is a big red flag.
Variety is the spice of life. Do it different ways — experiment. And, discuss it together in the minutes afterwards. What I usually like the most is this. When he starts squirting, keep stroking as you were stroking only slower. After the first squirts, switch from stroking to holding. For the next minute or two, press tongue to the sensitive spot, pressing gently. And gently press the lips around him. Every few seconds, snatch the tongue off for an instant and press it back on as fast as you lifted it off. I've found the same goes for my women parts. When I give head, when they starting cumming, they usually want the stroking to stop. I gently press the clit, with the interruptions of removing the pressure.
My husband makes sure I orgasm first, before PIV. It usually takes me a while, but he always makes sure to get me there. You deserve to orgasm every time.
You could try it out but keep in mind that it is not him but you who feels this way. While he may reassure you, still you will need to do your inner work to know that if he's with you, he wants to be. That won't change because there is an attractive woman nearby. Same as you, i bet you are not having second thoughts about your boyfriend when there is a handsome guy around. The same reason you don't fidget when there is a handsome girl is the same reason you should not do so when an attractive woman is around. I could say all this mumbo jumbo but one thing is for certain… you're not alone. Many of us (men and women alike) struggle with this. You should always follow your heart, but also keep in mind that our hearts can be a little overprotective sometimes, telling us to worry about things we don't need to worry about.
Why are they giving you minuses? It is the right answer!
This is how she is and it will not get better. That’s ok for her, but clearly not for you. If you’re ok with sex when on only her terms, stick with it. Maybe she’s the one, but don’t kid yourself. If she’s 23 and has a low sex drive, it is never going up long term. Generally it only goes downhill. You’ve made it to the place she’s comfortable and trusts you, that’s often a place where bottlenecks happen, this is the kinda how she’s gonna be. Sorry brother, best of luck
Good catch
I’d be happy with doing it once a month at this point
Sex daily isn't an addiction. My husband and I usually have sex daily. If not more. Everyone is different tho. I'm a recovering sex addict, and this is definitely not that!
Me personally I like Squirrel. “That’s my Squirrel” “Squirrel of my dreams” “My Squirrel-Friend”
Things that my FWB does that seal the deal for me include lots of eye contact, especially when she's telling me what feels good for her. Encouragement when I'm about to cum, just what she says takes me to another level. Using two hands on me, stroking not tugging. Being an active participant. I mean when I type it out, it all seems very straightforward but in my 40 years of having sex, just these simple things made all the difference.
I would try a little bit of alcohol (not a lot), and see if that helps.
Really? Lmao i just made this account
Is he taking care of you first? If not, change that. Otherwise, dunno what the problem is. Lots of people get really sleepy after orgasm.
It's not a “you” problem. It's a mixture of incompatibility and miscommunication, all of which coming from him. He resents being in a vanilla relationship (or at least that's how his problems are presenting here), so he turned to porn, which probably makes the sex even worse. He lies about porn, lies about having a problem. You lie about your feelings. Neither of you even values trust and honesty anymore. You just roll your eyes and try to ignore the porn. He just rolls his eyes and tries to ignore the lack of sex. You mention a month as a long gap, are you saying you normally have sex every couple weeks? Each relationship is different, but that's actually quite often compared to relationships in r/DeadBedrooms. Idk, it really sounds like he gave up on you quickly and now you are acting like it's your fault and now hiding your feelings about his bad habits.
Nah I know, I jest
That happened to me when I was on anti depressants. Couldn’t get wet for anything. And I’ve always been extra excited in that department. It sucked and I had to get off of them!
Ew
You should use that thing to generate revenue as a porn ⭐️
Interesting subreddit choice.
Seek professional help
Bring it up at dinner with her parents.
I'm sorry that happened to you. ❤️ I hope you are, or have, been getting help and talking with someone about it.
You're grieving. Good for you. You need to grieve. There are 5 aspects of grieving. If you get stuck, then there are grief groups you can join. This is really great that you are feeling your pain from your choices. I support you in continuing. There are nuggets of gold wisdom at the bottom of the pain. Keep going. The more you grieve, the better you become as a person. Your compassion for others will deepen. This is what I do: I think the thought that is causing me the most pain right now. I let the feelings from that thought flow through me. I repeat the thought, feeling my emotions every time. The more I repeat it, the less painful the thought becomes. Eventually, I move on to the next thought. The thoughts don't have to be truthful either. This isn't about truth. This is an emotional process that has its own schedule. Don't judge the thoughts when they come up. Just feel the emotions associated with each one. The more you're willing to feel, the faster the healing occurs. You come out a changed person. If your face is hurting the next day from crying, then you're doing good. If your tummy muscles hurt also, then you know you're on to something. Keep going. It is not a bottomless pit of despair. There is an end to it. You're doing great.
“Is she into you?” Girl pushing herself against guy's dick. “Can't tell” Dude. Obviously she is.
Do what makes you happy.
Find someone with the maturity to communicate about what they want, as well
Yess it does because it smells like sweaty balls. If you have them you know what it smells like.
I think because you’re a woman, men will find this to be a good thing, not a bad thing. That’s assuming you’re into men…
His friend probably let him do the same with a girl of his. I’m weird I guess, I wouldn’t want to see anyone have sex with my partner EVER. Call me old school I guess.
Or they didn’t pinch the tip, or they used the wrong lube, or…probably more reasons. If a condom can fit an entire human leg, it can fit your dick. But your point is right, they made an error most likely, condoms don’t just break without reason.
It sounds like not enough lube
A dildo is just a tool. It just so happens that the female anatomy is built with a penis shape in mind. You aren’t attracted to a piece of silicon, you just like what you can do with it. But there’s a lot of factors to sex. If you use a dildo, you can probably handle a penis in a comfortable and controlled circumstance. But the if you’re nervous or not attracted to your partner then you might not like it as much. If you’re attracted to men, then you’ll probably like having sex with men as long as your partner is good to you
What do you use to “clean out”?
Her tinder account is surely more than 2 years old
I get a BJ or HJ from her twice or sometimes three times a week. I do oral on her once or twice a day. Usually I do her at night before bedtime and when time permits I will wake her up with oral.
I mean why stop at panties… might aswell get a full closet with pants, tops, shoes, socks, etc… Also a coffee on the way out, and keys to their own car. At this point marriage would be easier
I have a job and a good income well for a teenager.
Deleting and taking this offline with my bf..as I should’ve from the start
Tell him “shut up and fuck me”.
Haha. 🙈🙈 Thanks
You keep on asking other commenters when she will be tight again, is that all you care about?? If she’s said she’s in pain repeatedly, she should probably go to the doctor…
One more thing is that we are both at college so since we are long distance we don’t get to have sex very often
Well, for instance, you're a transwoman and you're not very sure of the choices you've made in life. So you spend every waking hour on reddit convincing others, but in reality yourself, that everything is great and this is how it should be. But somewhere along this process it has become impossibe for you to see the forest through the trees and now you believe it is only normal for a transwoman to desire a larger penis.
False accusations are extremely rare. Do you trust her? If not, you shouldn't have sex with her anyway. If you do, then seek her enthusiastic consent before going forward with anything sexual, and trust her to mean yes when she says yes. Don't go forward with a “yes, I guess so.” You want her saying, “I can't wait, I want you so bad, please do [sex act].”
hi, just to clarify, when i replied to that person they hadn’t added the second sentence. they were saying an IUD is the only thing that could explain the specific discomfort OP was describing her boyfriend experiencing, which is from muscular clenching. which is why i asked for an explanation in my reply 🙂 but, as another commenter said, you weren’t hitting the IUD. the IUD sits inside the uterus, and it’s literally not possible for a penis to pass through the cervix and enter the uterus. it’s possible you may have an allergy to whatever material the IUD strings are made from. or, her IUD had migrated to her cervix, but that is not a common complication for most people and she would have experienced considerable discomfort if that had happened. or, she had an STI, or a particularly acidic vagina. there are many things that can cause that kind of pain and sensitivity to the head of a penis.
You’re awesome.
Wow somebody dropped the ball on the parenting duties.
Maybe you just haven't found what you really like yet. Maybe it's a mental health issue where you need to turn off inhibitors that you don't know about. Maybe stress… There are alot of things you could try about it like yoga or diet (just like one of the comments).
It's interesting that the onus on good sex IS NEARLY always on the man, a woman can show no signs of eagerness, or put in much effort and it's ok a MAN MUST ALWAYS DO X Y z And if he doesn't he's the shitty lover, or crap in bed, or lambasted, and Lampooned by women
Can't tell you how to think, but I would be interested in clearing something up Do you want him to approach you? You mention this is creepy (which to me it definitely is too) but don't seem put off by the idea of him approaching you. You mention you've still given him opportunities to, that you don't want things to get awkward when it sounds like they already have, you are curious about him, you say he doesn't seem to have confidence issues despite him being interested and not striking up a conversation, you don't know his intentions but don't assume they are bad, and you are wondering if he's playing games yet don't want to ask him why he's doing what he's doing. Put another way, this sounds like you don't like the behavior but aren't willing to take the steps yourself to stop it. Not because you are reserved, conflict avoidant, or believe it wouldn't help. But because you don't want to make things awkward, wonder what his intentions are, and are curious about when he'll make a move. Forgive me if I'm mistaken/ gotten the wrong impression but it sounds like the one who sees this as a game is you. A game where you want him to strike up a conversation and see where things go. That you find his hesitation interesting, himself not altogether unappealing, and don't want to say something yourself because you want to see him make the first move.
OP has tried your proposal. She did not agree to therapy. So your solution didn't work. Problem is still there. Sorry. You solved nothing.
I am interested as well
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I don’t think he truly understands what he is asking for.
Same post word for word, do you ever get bored of typing this post out dozens of times?
That my friend, was part of your soul.
haven’t yet felt comfortable enough to tell them about that. Obviously not telling you to go faster than you’re comfortable but I would consider talking to them about it. Maybe it’ll be easier now that you’ve shared it with your gf?
It's good health, like keep your cardio….. and dick pills you find at sex shops. Shit makes your dick massively hard uncontrollably and not easy to bust. Combine that with good cardio and you can fuck like a machine. I have made woman tap out like that
My clit gets super sensitive when I cum to the point it’s not enjoyable. I like a guy to lower the pace and massage around it but that’s just me. She’ll probably tell you if you mess up her orgasm by doing something wrong. I know I would!
I might need to get drunk for such a coversation tbh
Nonsense. You’re not a tree dude. If you don’t like where you are then move. Or as my father used to say “never grow a wishbone where your backbone ought to be”. Either accept it with love in your heart, or leave. And if you can’t accept it with love in your heart then get some therapy.. because you’re not doing anyone any good sitting there filling up with resentment.
No.
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In a perfect world, body count is as irrelevant as virginity but most of us don't live in that world. In general, this issue dies away with time but not always. It sounds like he lied by omission so he could get you undressed and now he's paying the price. This is based on him saying he was always going to tell you at some point so why not on day one if this wasn't the case. Now you need to work out whether you might come to cope with this and if not , even though he's your first, it's better to get it over with.
Your friends know fuck all and live in a fantasy medieval era world
Not graphic just like an overall
I thought the same thing. 15 minutes is not that long, for me if it only requires that long I would say let's go for another round!
Just sounds like he has some kinks maybe related to age play or maybe teen fetish or something like that. Nothing wrong with that in itself and it's pretty normal for guys to have some kind of kink or fetish like that, there's a reason why categories like school girl porn and teen porn are among the most popular on porn sites. Of course that doesn't mean that you have to be OK with it and you certainly need to set your own boundaries and make them clear to him. Communication is absolutely key here. Kinks and fetishes can be a great source of fun and exploration in a relationship, if they are mutual and openly discussed with clear rules and boundaries. On the other hand if they are kept hidden or clouded in shame they can ruin a relationship. I suggest you have a talk with him outside the bedroom and talk to him about it without judgement.
If it's a serious relationship don't you want him to make a good impression? Is the joke more important to you than him making a good first impression?
Lelo brand is luxury in that realm. Im sure she would be impressed.
Good luck with the Oppression Olympics. I hope your team wins.
sort of depends on what kind of company you work with and their policies on relationships of the sort
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I absolutely love when my husband moans either while having sex or he is masterbating. Moaning is a sign of enjoyment. I love knowing he is enjoying being pleased
Oh this is way easier then: “Yeah I like what I like. How’s life as an asexual? I’ve been meaning to ask you.” “Yep I can’t get enough of it and she can’t get enough of it, we are kinda like rabbits. But I heard you are also not getting enough—sorry friend.” “
Oh this is way easier then: “Yeah I like what I like. How’s life as an asexual? I’ve been meaning to ask you.” “Yep I can’t get enough of it and she can’t get enough of it, we are kinda like rabbits. But I heard you are also not getting enough—sorry friend.” “
If your into it, you should ask her if she would be interested in snowballing. You could also have her give you oral, then make out with her with your semen in her mouth, if she's interested in doing so. For giving her oral after you cum inside her, face sitting is a fun position to try.
My mum also had a horrific experience with chronic mastitis and being told she was a horrible mother because she couldn’t breastfeed (she tried her hardest but her body wasn’t playing ball whatsoever and she was cursed with awkward babies-myself included). It was dreadful what she went through and I wish I could go back and stand up for her when she was so vulnerable
Tell him.
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Literally none of this is true! Not drinking leads to dehydration which makes it harder to actually do, most people don't need an enema every time. If you're a pornstar taking in a 15 inch cock on camera then maybe you need that much prep, but otherwise this is just false.
Just drunk dude.. don’t overthink it Half the things you may want to do in Vegas, you don’t have to remember
Guys, OP knows he's being an ass so let us not put him down more and maybe tell him how to be better. Seen comments that he should let his partner go, and I agree. Everybody deserves to be cared about after the deed, whether what your label is. OP, I don't know what you've been through, but please make a conscious effort to show that you're grateful to your partner after the deed. Maybe try figuring out first what you really wanted first before getting intimate with someone. It'll help you understand what you really want out of all this and avoid hurting other people.
WRT fetish videos, amateurs on OF often understand the fetish much better (because they have it themselves) and thus produce better videos than professional actors who are just playing out a scene.
If she can’t make herself orgasm through masterbation either how is it his fault. I think it’s a her thing
She said she consented, in the end. She could have left frustrated. The guy was a bad, manipulative guy but she consented.
Wrong sub
I really don't want to be harsh about this, but it sounds like there's a problem with attraction on his end. He just doesn't seem that sexually into you, could be because he's not that attracted to you or could be because he's taking you for granted. Why do you want to stay? Yeah, you're best friends but it sounds more logical to actually just be best friends rather than bf gf, no? You're 20 years old, don't waste your time further on someone who makes you insecure about yourself. You can find someone who's willing to communicate with you and also make you feel wanted sexually.
Well it shouldn't 🤷🏼♀️
There's no telling what could've caused it. Most likely nerves because it probably is his first outside his ex. No way to tell that without asking, though. Best thing you can do is remain supportive and encouraging and maintain clear communication. Extra stress will only make it worse.
I have male patients say this to me ALL the time and it makes me shudder. This is something I only want my husband saying to me.
You have to open your mouth like an adult and talk to him. If you can't ask for something, you probably won't get it.
Dreams don't translate to real life. They are too unexplainable and random. I wouldn't think much of this.
Thank you so so much.I was literally in tears about this.I’m so glad I came to Reddit.
This!! I had a mutual on OF. His pictures were actually fun to look at. Sometimes he’d pose with flowers and I thought that was cute. Not for size comparison either just to add some flare.
Hallelujah! Someone cracked the code!! 🫠 Btw OP did you just come here to fish for compliments … because you would get an A+ from almost all of us here 😊. Keep doing what you are doing .. which is being a great partner and keeping her happy! Hoping she does the same for you!
Give her the dick
Of course. Please be gentle and patient with her (you sound like a good guy so I'm sure you will be), it's probably not something she has much control over and sexual issues are full of emotional landmines. Try your best to not make it come across as pressure. Her forcing herself to have sex she doesn't want won't really fix the issue. What does she say her ideal frequency is? If her ideal is much too low for you, that's not a good sign. Good luck! Genuinely hope it works out for you.
Bf had been touching me throughout the day because he really liked me in the floaty little sundress I was wearing. When we were finally alone he was all over me, almost growling in my ear how badly he wanted to be inside me. He picked me up, sat me on the edge of table and moved my knickers to the side instead of taking them off. I felt warm all over and almost breathless. He laid me down and there was something about his angle into me that made me orgasm so hard I couldn’t feel my legs properly afterwards. Having that much intense can’t-help-himself attention just pushed me right over the edge 😅
Yes lack of any interest . I have had partners that just wanted to have sex to take care of me even when they do not want to. I can tell and I just can not do it . For me if the woman is not into it, I just can not enjoy it.