Exactly. Good sex typically involves communication, consent, the ability to adapt to different body types and needs, and a sense of fun. Leg cramps happen. Lube is really useful and sometimes a must-have. Sometimes orgasms happen too soon, sometimes not at all, and neither means everything has to come to a stop. Porn is largely gonzo. It's shock value, idealized and dumbed down and quick fix. There's rarely the sense that the participants even like each other, much less genuinely desire each other. (Note: I'm talking mostly about big budget, commercially available porn. Indie/amateur stuff has the potential for much more nuance.) Of course there's people of all genders who genuinely get off on similar actions, but it shouldn't be assumed that most or all people do. Talk to your person about what works for them and what's better left as viewing material.
I would definitely prefer to not if birth control works and doesn’t have any bad side effects on my gf. If you don’t want to then don’t, but just maybe consider it and why you’re uncomfortable with it.
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Meh. Almost all humans masturbate, and most watch porn to some level of frequency. Given all of the pretty clear insecurity you have here (oh no, she's looking at other guy's' dicks), she likely felt like it wasn't worth fighting with you over something that absolutely is not your business anyway. Frankly, she should have owned it. “Yes, I watch porn. And?” If you chose to be immature and controlling and wanted to break up, that would have been better for the both of you, since you somehow seem to think that this is cheating or the like. I feel like the two of you just aren't compatible.
Exactly. Good sex typically involves communication, consent, the ability to adapt to different body types and needs, and a sense of fun. Leg cramps happen. Lube is really useful and sometimes a must-have. Sometimes orgasms happen too soon, sometimes not at all, and neither means everything has to come to a stop. Porn is largely gonzo. It's shock value, idealized and dumbed down and quick fix. There's rarely the sense that the participants even like each other, much less genuinely desire each other. (Note: I'm talking mostly about big budget, commercially available porn. Indie/amateur stuff has the potential for much more nuance.) Of course there's people of all genders who genuinely get off on similar actions, but it shouldn't be assumed that most or all people do. Talk to your person about what works for them and what's better left as viewing material.
Yeah, you know when you want to give someone encouragement. No, you clearly don't
I would definitely prefer to not if birth control works and doesn’t have any bad side effects on my gf. If you don’t want to then don’t, but just maybe consider it and why you’re uncomfortable with it.
Also helps if your partner picks the scenario.
Lmao yes, the iron taste is for some reason really good.
I've never actually bought condoms, but he is quite large so I'm assuming he might need a bigger size.
This topic is discussed regularly in our forum. If you search past r/sex posts with some diligence (following Forum Rule #3), you’ll find a number of helpful discussions. Post removed. The r/sex forum's HUGE archive of past posts is a tremendous resource for people who have all kinds of common questions regarding sexual activity. Searching those posts for relevant discussions will definitely help you here.
Meh. Almost all humans masturbate, and most watch porn to some level of frequency. Given all of the pretty clear insecurity you have here (oh no, she's looking at other guy's' dicks), she likely felt like it wasn't worth fighting with you over something that absolutely is not your business anyway. Frankly, she should have owned it. “Yes, I watch porn. And?” If you chose to be immature and controlling and wanted to break up, that would have been better for the both of you, since you somehow seem to think that this is cheating or the like. I feel like the two of you just aren't compatible.
Neither my husband or I necessarily pee right after and it's never been a problem.
My wife doesn't like neither giving nor receiving oral. But to me, it's like cutting 50% off. How do you guys make up for that?