This honestly sounds more like dissociation. Your body and mind are working together for the orgasm but your conscious recollection/perception of the event doesn't fully register because you're basically having an out of mind/body experience. Pretty common actually but mostly in subs in the bdsm dynamic. I wish I could help you figure out how to counter this but if I could explain that I'd probably have a PhD in neuroscience or something.
That sounds like quite the compliment. I’ve (kind of) done the reverse. While giving him oral I also used a toy on myself and we managed to cum at the same time. Surprised me as generally I can’t split my focus enough to get too into what’s happening with me.
This honestly sounds more like dissociation. Your body and mind are working together for the orgasm but your conscious recollection/perception of the event doesn't fully register because you're basically having an out of mind/body experience. Pretty common actually but mostly in subs in the bdsm dynamic. I wish I could help you figure out how to counter this but if I could explain that I'd probably have a PhD in neuroscience or something.
have sex with him
That sounds like quite the compliment. I’ve (kind of) done the reverse. While giving him oral I also used a toy on myself and we managed to cum at the same time. Surprised me as generally I can’t split my focus enough to get too into what’s happening with me.