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1. To add to this comment- if she takes a hormonal birth control it could be affecting her libido which could affect her arousal. Just another thing to consider.

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2. That is completely fair and valid, I have not been trying to argue that people are not entitled to a preference. But that is all something that should be communicated between both parties early on – and not set as some unspoken expectation. For me personally – my line was if I'm dating someone, and we've had our first real kiss, and we have other dates planned? My intimacy with other people stops. My wife, she did not have that rule – between our 2nd and 3rd date I went out of town for the weekend with some buddies. I mentioned it was turning out to be a slightly awkward trip as two of them were recently single and trying to get me to pick up women with them. She was confused, as she didn't understand why that was an issue. We weren't in a relationship, had only been on 2 dates, and she actually had a lunch date with someone earlier that day. She hadn't been intimate at all and the date ended early, but it brought to light our very poor lack of communication. We then discussed where we were at, and what our preferences were and moved on from there. That is how this situation should play out. The thing I've been arguing against here is the “withholding” and “making me wait” attitude so many folks are taking. If you just want sex that's fine, if you want a relationship that's fine, if you want both that's also fine. What is not fine – is blowing up and shaming women for behavior that is not even remotely out of line or untoward because they wanted to get to know you more before sleeping with you. If someone is mad because she has a FWB or one night stand when you've been on a date or two, and you've never bothered to discuss it – that's on you. If you're the kind of person who would be shocked and dismayed that a woman has a FWB she is sleeping with when you start dating, then you should probably ask that question on Date 1 or even prior. I don't understand that mindset personally as the expectation that someone not having anything at all going on in that part of their lives before going on a single date with you seems extremely close-minded. What's important is that they don't have it going on after they've begun something with you. Me personally, I would usually bring it up during Date 2 – if Date 1 went well. Date 2, I'd normally be like – hey just to put this out there, I think these dates have been really fun, and I'm enjoying getting to know you. Just to keep it all clear – I'm not just dating you right now, because I really want to see where this goes. Just want to see if we're on the same page here? I have NEVER had a poor reaction to framing it that way. The way every other poster is coming out here – with the single exception being this last post of yours – is that if the woman had anything at all going on at any point after going on a date, she was leading them on and toying with them.

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3. Then it's emotional or mental…since the physical is normal.

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4. He wouldn’t do that , he thinks it weird lol

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