I'm male and I'm stupid. Have to get that out first. I understand where you're coming from but I wonder if it is that simple. Granted, it may be that simple for you and if it is, boy, are you lucky. I mean if you bring yourself off every time you try and it isn't really a problem, I think you are very fortunate. I can understand why you're frustrated when you don't courtesy of a partner. Aa I understand it, women have the potential to orgasm more often and more intensely than men, on average. On the other hand, more women seem to have orgasm problems. So, it seems as if it might be a case of extremes. Obviously not the case for you. If men want to have sex on a regular basis then they have to deliver the goods, or at least make an honest effort. If they're not doing that and it puts their partner off then they've got no grounds for complaint.
I'm male and I'm stupid. Have to get that out first. I understand where you're coming from but I wonder if it is that simple. Granted, it may be that simple for you and if it is, boy, are you lucky. I mean if you bring yourself off every time you try and it isn't really a problem, I think you are very fortunate. I can understand why you're frustrated when you don't courtesy of a partner. Aa I understand it, women have the potential to orgasm more often and more intensely than men, on average. On the other hand, more women seem to have orgasm problems. So, it seems as if it might be a case of extremes. Obviously not the case for you. If men want to have sex on a regular basis then they have to deliver the goods, or at least make an honest effort. If they're not doing that and it puts their partner off then they've got no grounds for complaint.
Hell, tell them, no demand, they do it.