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I think you need to move on. His lack of empathy for your sexual assault says he probably has a narcissistic personality disorder — something you will want to avoid for your own mental and physical well-being. As for him throwing a hissy fit because you won't give him what he wants? That just confirms it.
Just get a divorce my guy. No point in hurting them a cheating. Do you both a favour
I've asked five or six times throughout our marriage for more intimacy and I'm always met with criticism. Do you at least flirt and seduce her before you ask in a sexy way? How do you exactly execute your “asks”? I sure hope you're not asking in a normal tone of voice lol “I need more foreplay” This is legitimate and valid criticism, but she needs to specify what kind. Do you give her soft kisses on her shoulders and neck? Do you nibble on her ear? Do you two make out for a good while before you go further? How often do you go on dates with each other? Do you gently graze her knees or thighs? A simple little finger under the chin 'hey cutie'? What is your usual flirty banter and chemistry towards each other like? “You do too much oral on me” That's also legitimate feedback. If it's overstimulating, then ask her what her limit is. Go slowly and let her take control. What does she like vs dislike? Explore each other “Don't touch my nipples so much” This is also legitimate feedback. If it's overstimulating, then go softer. Ask her for more specific instructions. And the criticism is usually conflicting. Why and how exactly is this criticism conflicting? Can you help me explain? To me, what she's saying so far are all completely valid. Just listen to her. What exactly is the problem? Now I'm convinced that I'm just not good enough at sex. She's literally giving you feedback on how to improve, and you take it to mean you're not good enough? It's okay if you're not good enough, especially if she's telling you what she needs IN ORDER for you to be good enough. Why not see it as her teaching you how to be good enough for her? Is this how it's supposed to go? I'm so unhappy From what it sounds like, she's straight up communicating with you of what her sexual needs are, but you're still getting frustrated that your sexual needs are not met. Sir, you need to stop being selfish about only YOUR needs. Sex is supposed to be pleasurable for BOTH of you. Focus on pleasing her and her alone, and then it'll escalate into you two wanting to please each other.
“calm down” lol
I say take your bfs advice and let him pleasure you first so you can get off then he can get his that way its a win win my bf does that sometimes when he wants to get me off during foreplay instead of making me PIV orgasm
Remember this is all from the perspective of someone who expects their partner to do these things after dismissing his realistic and healthy solution. There's definitely a lens of entitlement here
It’s also normal for sex drive to ebb and flow throughout phases in life alongside stressors, age, and hormones etc. I have a male partner who has low libido and we’re in the process of defining “ideal sex” and “maintenance” sex. How maintenance sex is manifesting for us is when one partner might be less interested but is still interested enough to participate and just chooses what extent to participate. Ie. a quickie/mutual masturbation/oral/cuddling naked/teasing/or just allowing themselves to be groped without expectation of intercourse. This is decided by the lower libido partner when they are up to it, for consideration of the higher libido partner when there hasn’t been sex within a defined time.
You had it easy. Now you have to shoot your shot. Unless there are workplace implications, go for it. The embarrassment is worth it given he already gave you a thumbs up previously. It could be the alcohol, or he could just be acting respectful because he felt that was your kind rejection of him.
I'm of similar age, but very different lifestyle (poor diet, no weights). Finally kicked the porn habit for good two and a half years ago. Since then I've found that, other than sporadic bouts of daily masturbation, my experience seems to be overall the same as yours. I can now easily go days or sometimes weeks without release. I am alone, so nothing in my environment turns me on. When I do fantasize during masturbation it's pretty hazy and weak. I have been on SSRI meds for a decade, which may have contributed to this. I am on a very low dose now though, and things are the same. For awhile I considered maybe I just had more self control, but based on your post, I think it's just age related. Of course, people's experiences vary. And you sound like you have no issues performing sexually, so that's something.
There’s nothing you can do except surgery to make your boobs look perkier. Sagging is natural, skin looses elasticity with age and titties are not immune to gravity. I would genuinely reconsider my relationship with someone like your partner, because I would not feel secure about my future with them and would always feel paranoid about them leaving me due to slightest body change. You should work on your self esteem issues and learn to love yourself just the way you are. Your self worth shouldn’t be directly tied to your physical appearance because there is much more to you than just a body.
Oh my goodness! I'd totally missed that, thanks for reminding me! 😁
This. Beautifully put.
It would, but it still gives information to your perspective. Not having any drive likely means a health issue but it sounds like you're already addressing that. What's the timeline here? Has it been weeks or months? It can take quite awhile for a new equilibrium to settle.
She has mentioned that masturbation is just easier to do. Sex takes more time to get started and get into. She swears she loves it once we're in the middle of it, which I believe, but it's just the mental effort to get there often feels like a chore.
Never had a single one, but that's probably because I started taking “matters into my own hand” pretty early on, and then had partners who relieved me of those duties in a much better way!
It sounds like he’d rather jerk off to porn, which in a relationship is a problem. The same thing happened with my ex. Jerking off every night and even if I caught him he would still rather not have me finish for him. It’s not healthy and you need to let him know that you are not happy so that he can decide wether it’s important to him to make sure you are happy in a relationship with him. And from there decide if therapy is right for you guys, considering even if he does fix this issue you might still have potential insecurity issues if he ever in future says “not right now” because of what that meant in the past. It’s a lot and should not be brushed under the rug.
I knew lots of people like this unfortunately I did not have the impressive willpower that OP does. The best way with personality disordered people (assuming here, but seems likely) is actually not to be open and honest. The narcissistic injury or abandonment wounds can honestly make them seek revenge against you, for example its been years and not too long ago I heard about someone I knew with a person like this who they spray painted disparaging remarks all over their work building even using their name and stuff like that. There's other stuff like smear campaigns, false allegations, physical violence. I've been through some of that too. Honestly OP handled it well, you basically want this person to get bored of you and move onto the next supply. I mean I am making a lot of assumptions about her but it checks out with a lot of what I've learned about these types and I've know a lot of them too. But if you give an honest rejection, which would be a good thing for a healthy person to receive, you have no idea how they'll react and there's already some big red flags. This is basically the same reason why a lot of women don't feel comfortable rejecting a guy transparently, its an issue of safety
Not possible
Trust and comfort are key for me. Don’t worry about it hurting if you’re on the bigger side, I have had a smaller size penis hurt and be zero pleasure and larger one not hurt at all and be insanely pleasureful. The times I’ve enjoyed it have been absolute next level animalistic indescribable bliss and they’ve had to do with the partner and specifically how “well taken care of” I feel. If you can make sure she feels like she’s in good hands and that you are in tune with her body language, you’re gonna have an amazing time. It takes patience as you are already aware of. What does it for me: Make sure she’s comfy and relaxed. Not too hot, not too cold, not too exposed. Have a dark coloured towel handy in case she’s worried about any mess. (I’ve never had a mess of any sort with anal, but she may be worried about it so ease the worry so she can be out of her head and into the massive amount of pleasure you’re gonna give her. Make her feel like a goddess. The guy that gave me the best anal experience made me feel absolutely worshipped. He was confident and paid attention. I felt like I was his science project and all he wanted was to bring me pleasure and get to know my body and watch me react and adjust and proceed as needed. He was in control. I was safe and could feel confident in him to guide me through it. Lots of oral and as another post mentioned, get a little sloppy and go out of bounds with your tongue on her asshole. Pay attention, did she pull away? Prob not into it. Did she moan or say something like “omg you’re so dirty I fucking love that”? Game on😉 Don’t rush in though. Make her absolutely ache for it. Make it seem like it just happened so she can say “omg I had no idea I would like” etc. Keep eating her pussy out and occasionally skimming her asshole and paying attention. Maybe stay a little longer each time. Back ti her pussy and Add a finger to her vagina while your licking her clit. Do long and slow strikes pulling your finger(s) all the way out each time. Draw back a little further and slowly brush your wet fingers across her asshole on your way to sliding them back into her Pussy. Let her get used to the sensation and idea of it all. Make sure you’re spreading that wonderful wetness all over. Tell her you love making her feel good. Tell her how you love hearing her moan. Don’t rush. Work your way up to leaving one finger in her pussy and another one just on her asshole, maybe sliding back and forth as you eat her out and slowly finger her pussy. After a while hold it still and just slowly press her asshole. Listen, pay attention, read her body. She will likely sink down in if she’s wanting it. Let her get used to the feeling. Slowly sink it in deeper while you continue oral. Add lube if you want, but it’s never been necessary for me. Once you have your finger inserted into her ass, leave it in the same depth, but just gently move it in that “come here” motion. Let her ass relax. You’ll feel the tension loosen up. Maybe add some lube to your hard cock at this point. If you think she’s ready, sloooooowly pull your finger out but leave the tip in. Position yourself so your cock is ready to penetrate. I like it laying on my belly with my legs spread wide. Press your cock onto her asshole replacing your fingertip. Let her get used to how hard it is. How much wider it is. Let her press herself back onto your cock. Tell her how amazing it feels. Talk low and slow. Maybe rub her back. Keep the pressure there. Slowly slide it in so you have a few inches in her ass. Give it several minutes just moving a tiny bit in and out but never all the way out. Care for her. Play with her hair, massage whatever part of her you can reach. Pay attention, adjust. Eventually you’ll feel her ass “accept” your cock. It’s at this point, for me, I feel horny AF and a wash of emotions flood me. I begin to feel very submissive and absolutely carnal. Sink your cock slowly in deeper. Listen to her. She might she want it to stay there, almost still. I can bet your her Pussy is throbbing with jealousy. Slowly, like ridiculously slowly start to fuck her ass but never get too close to sliding it all the way out. Absolute fucking bliss. Be careful to watch her, if she’s like me, she is likely feeling extremely vulnerable and in heaven and maybe a little “high”. She’ll let you know when she’s had enough. Be there to tell her how amazing it was, to hold her tight, kiss her, and maybe fuck her too, (get a fresh condom) bc all that anal pleasure makes me want to get fucked HARD in the pussy.
Try it before you knock it, it’s really very hot!
Me personally (bc I can only speak for myself) I do. I remember most, if not every great time that I've had in the past. I'm 38 now and have recent flashbacks of the good times. Not only the good times though. I also rarely, but still do have flashbacks of some very bad times as well
No sure where the object reference came from. If you are highly sexual and you'd love to be intimate on average 7 times per week and your partner only once. That's a tough compromise. If your partner agrees to 3 times per week, they are saying yes to sex 3 times more often than they like. Perhaps 100 times per year. Meanwhile the higher-libido partner is getting what constututes a 'no', 200 times per year. If you can successfully have an open relationship, perhaps that will solve it. Otherwise, this is a bad mismatch of highly complex humans, none of which are happy. No objects here.
Well some random people on Reddit might have had the same medical issue I am having? And what’s not to say that there are medically trained people on Reddit?
Omg I just had a flashback about it and it happened a few days ago. 😭❤️ I’m glad I am not the only one. It was the best I ever had.