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1. There are lots of things either you or your partner can do to make oral more satisfying. Try asking your partner to use words. I’ve discovered I am into oraise kink and we are going over examples of the sorts of things he can sepay to me in the moment that can bring me over the edge. Eg. “You smell fantastic. I could eat you for days.” Or “You’re so beautiful. I can’t believe I get to spend so much time with you.” Etc. Etc. Make sure he has the right technique. There are two general techniques that work the best; the vortex and the pancake, and usually it’s best to alternate between he two. But there are also other important moves that will vary depending on the receiver. Some like to be bitten or nibbled. Others prefer just licking and sucking and perhaps probing, sometimes over a large area, and sometimes concentrated on one main spot. Insert a finger or two into the vagina while performing oral. Because of the angle, this usually works better when your partner does it. It’s also easier to reach the g-spot that way. And it’s usually better to introduce it gradually after oral has started. Stimulate the clitoris with your fingers or a vibrator while your partner is performing oral. Pull up with a finger from the lower pubis to stretch the labia under your clit, or press down with a palm on the mid pubis to try to make contact externally with the g-spot. Stimulate your breasts and nipples. Try it with a butt plug in.

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