Drinking the wrong look aid my friendā¦ if people want to have sex casually or not and protection or not. they will do it. You realize casual sex existed before roe v wade? Have you see the accidental no protection sex posts? Thereās like three a dayā¦People are more cautious yes. But will they stop having sex? No.
If you “triggered” her and she wont give you at least a primary explaination walk away. She dosent care about how you feel. Its all about her and always will be until she gets her head fixed or can at least be honest since you suspect her. Rule #1 treat those you care about the way you would want to be treated.
I canāt really think of anything but I donāt think I would have a problem with any invitation. I would say something bent over naked for starters though would be fantastic.
Brown discharge is old blood. Fingering may have triggered some uterine cramps and the discharge is left over from your last period. Or his fingers caused some bleeding from your cervix and my the time is makes itās way out, itās dried brown. Either way itās not really a cause for concern.
Not for any reason as far as the law is concerned and definitely not after the fact. Donāt get me wrong, Iām not defending the guy, what I am saying is that this whole situation makes no sense, she clearly found him attractive enough to sleep with, what does it matter if he was born 10 years earlier?
Not for any reason as far as the law is concerned and definitely not after the fact. Donāt get me wrong, Iām not defending the guy, what I am saying is that this whole situation makes no sense, she clearly found him attractive enough to sleep with, what does it matter if he was born 10 years earlier?
Not for any reason as far as the law is concerned and definitely not after the fact. Donāt get me wrong, Iām not defending the guy, what I am saying is that this whole situation makes no sense, she clearly found him attractive enough to sleep with, what does it matter if he was born 10 years earlier?
I've never been in any friend group of guys that went into real detail about sex with anyone. For one thing, I don't want to advertise the specifics of what my partner does to my friends. That can cause problems. I haven't seen it mentioned, but I feel like telling people “Yeah my girl does x, y, and z and her privates look like this or that ans she blah blah blah…” might make the other guys wanna find out. I don't need to advertise what I have. I just need to share that I enjoy it. The MOST you might get is “She's a freak” or some vague descriptor like that.
Have you talked to your SO about this? I don't think my wife would be very turned on seeing me in a mankini but she wants to tear me out of them every time she sees my in a suit or blazer outfit.
Itās a threesome, itās going to be a shit showā¦ just be there and have funā¦ give, receive, and be present. Donāt put expectations on you or them. If your not comfortable, leave it in the world of fantasy to live forever.
It sounds like he wants a porn star not a girlfriend. He obviously sounds like he doesnāt want you, because you are who you are and that doesnāt seem good enough. You sound better off with out him.
I though it was a normal thing that a men enjoy it more when he give then receive, all of my girlfriends where receivers and I was always a giver, i don't quit until you are really done, not just 1 orgasm, as long as you want. Over the years I started to enjoy that too but never had sex with someone who can give me that I think most girl are receivers.
Showing intimacy is work… like you have to put in effort to show affection even when you don't want to all the time. Doing little things knowing they will appreciate what you did is the point. That makes them feel loved even without sucking his dick to prove so. If my wife came home tired and went to bed live that, I'd think she is just tired sure. But if I literally went to bed for the day and she NEVER came and gave me a hug, or kiss or cuddle with me… I'd think there's a problem going on… that's a relationship.
I want sex three times a week and him Once a month. I want to experiment, he doesnāt. We are both in individual plus couples therapy now to figure stuff out. Itās a common problem. Desire is very complex. Especially if youāre in it for the long run
I recently started a relationship with someone. We both live at home but promised that the first time we have sex with each other would be in one of our homes. Unfortunately we also both have very high sex drives. Yesterday we both happened to finish work at the same time, so I offered to drive her home. When we arrived, she wanted to cuddle a bit in the backseat before I left. One thing led to another and eventually we just started having sex in the backseat. Itās a small car but it was the most mind blowing sex in my life. Sheās since been sending pictures of herself from work and Iām losing my mind a bit
I usually do close my eyes during sex, I think it helps me focus a little bit better. It's also become a habit because I usually need to fantasize about a scenario in my head to get off. I know that this is common for some women but sometimes I worry that my fantasy might be distracting me from being present. I will try your grounding technique. Some people have also said they take short breaks during foreplay to talk about what they are feeling with their partner. I also agree 100% with you about the candles I have been taken out of the mood multiple times due to poor lighting and my boyfriend just didn't understand.
the analogy makes sense. i guess i didnāt really consider the dangers of it bc of how nice he seems, but iām glad iām learning this sooner rather than later
I use to think this way and one day it clicked. I was able to put all 10 inches long and 6ā girth down my throat. Then it became easier for people who were even bigger. A lot of it has to do with angle. Also starting off slow and sucking him from soft to hard. While heās becoming erect and still soft and smaller. It is easier to relax your throat and let it slide in. If youāre slamming a fully erect penis into your throat, you will not be able to relax. I also know plenty of women who buy dildos to practice deep throating with. Only because itās easier to scrape teeth accidentally on a dildo while learning VS a penis. They also make throat numbing spray for women who need help relaxing their throat. You can buy it at any sex shop. Also, you should look into a lubricant you can buy for playing with your partner. He will appreciate the lubricant while heās getting head/ hand jobs.
Oral is in my opinion the most intimate, unselfish act. I feel special either when I give or receive oral. I really get turned on when my wife asks me to do oral on her.
You seem very conflicted at several levels. She says her experience with the other guy was painful and yet she kept going to him multiple times. The issue I see is can you trust her again and, if not, what is the next step? Of course, trust is a two-way street. If you have also cheated on her, then you effectively have an open relationship and that has its own consequences whether you know of them or not. Hope you make the right decision for yourself.
Well you have to swing all the way to the other side for both arguments to meet in the middle. Iām playing more devils advocate than anything. I think neither of them and both of them are at fault. She should have explained her preferences earlier so to not hurt his feelings, he shouldnāt be pushing her for oral if sheās not comfortable, sheās valid for not wanting to do oral, heās valid for feeling hurt. It goes both ways.
Maybe couple therapy cause him crying is sad and hurting him a lot I feel so bad for him keep comforting him write a long letter and read him it promise him u r over the fantasy I hope it works out
Wow, I think he has completely solved your problem for you: He's removed himself from the list of guys who get to play in your lady garden. IMO? He's self-centered, dismissive of you & your desires & boundaries, he's insulting, I'll bet he's lying about 'other girls don't mind it.' Lose his number, never talk to him again. There are LOTS of better fish in the sea.
May I ask, how do you know you consented? Substance use with sex or chemsex is great for lots of people when done properly but legally you cannot consent when intoxicated. Personally, I'd be less concerned about you embarrassing yourself around this person and more worried about whether or not you genuinely did consent to sex after having said no once. To me reading this it sounds as though he waited until you were intoxicated enough to lose your sense of the world around you to initiate sex.
For a good handjob, use your mouth For a good blowjob, use your hands Poetry at its finest.
People might have differing perspectives based on gender
Drinking the wrong look aid my friendā¦ if people want to have sex casually or not and protection or not. they will do it. You realize casual sex existed before roe v wade? Have you see the accidental no protection sex posts? Thereās like three a dayā¦People are more cautious yes. But will they stop having sex? No.
If you “triggered” her and she wont give you at least a primary explaination walk away. She dosent care about how you feel. Its all about her and always will be until she gets her head fixed or can at least be honest since you suspect her. Rule #1 treat those you care about the way you would want to be treated.
For me it's like I get a head-rush from the change in breathing/flood of endorphins/moaning.
I canāt really think of anything but I donāt think I would have a problem with any invitation. I would say something bent over naked for starters though would be fantastic.
Very common. My bf mostly lasts around that or lower some days. Sure the odd time it will be longer but 7-10 is a normal average
Well it does have electrolytes.
Ah okay, yeah I think he was struggling to stay hard
You might want to read this.
Google vaginismus see if that rings any bells for you
Brown discharge is old blood. Fingering may have triggered some uterine cramps and the discharge is left over from your last period. Or his fingers caused some bleeding from your cervix and my the time is makes itās way out, itās dried brown. Either way itās not really a cause for concern.
Not for any reason as far as the law is concerned and definitely not after the fact. Donāt get me wrong, Iām not defending the guy, what I am saying is that this whole situation makes no sense, she clearly found him attractive enough to sleep with, what does it matter if he was born 10 years earlier?
Not for any reason as far as the law is concerned and definitely not after the fact. Donāt get me wrong, Iām not defending the guy, what I am saying is that this whole situation makes no sense, she clearly found him attractive enough to sleep with, what does it matter if he was born 10 years earlier?
Not for any reason as far as the law is concerned and definitely not after the fact. Donāt get me wrong, Iām not defending the guy, what I am saying is that this whole situation makes no sense, she clearly found him attractive enough to sleep with, what does it matter if he was born 10 years earlier?
I've never been in any friend group of guys that went into real detail about sex with anyone. For one thing, I don't want to advertise the specifics of what my partner does to my friends. That can cause problems. I haven't seen it mentioned, but I feel like telling people “Yeah my girl does x, y, and z and her privates look like this or that ans she blah blah blah…” might make the other guys wanna find out. I don't need to advertise what I have. I just need to share that I enjoy it. The MOST you might get is “She's a freak” or some vague descriptor like that.
Never heard of it, but I'll do some research, thanks
Have you talked to your SO about this? I don't think my wife would be very turned on seeing me in a mankini but she wants to tear me out of them every time she sees my in a suit or blazer outfit.
Itās a threesome, itās going to be a shit showā¦ just be there and have funā¦ give, receive, and be present. Donāt put expectations on you or them. If your not comfortable, leave it in the world of fantasy to live forever.
It sounds like he wants a porn star not a girlfriend. He obviously sounds like he doesnāt want you, because you are who you are and that doesnāt seem good enough. You sound better off with out him.
Lol.. then start with a pencil and see if that hurts š
as in that's a long time or as in that's not long enough? Not sure what part of the whole thing is where I have to “grow up”.
I though it was a normal thing that a men enjoy it more when he give then receive, all of my girlfriends where receivers and I was always a giver, i don't quit until you are really done, not just 1 orgasm, as long as you want. Over the years I started to enjoy that too but never had sex with someone who can give me that I think most girl are receivers.
Ukhti you are at the wrong place to learn this sub is for degenerates mainly. Don't take their advice for masturbation it may lead you to fisq.
no worries lol and thank you for answering
thank you š
Showing intimacy is work… like you have to put in effort to show affection even when you don't want to all the time. Doing little things knowing they will appreciate what you did is the point. That makes them feel loved even without sucking his dick to prove so. If my wife came home tired and went to bed live that, I'd think she is just tired sure. But if I literally went to bed for the day and she NEVER came and gave me a hug, or kiss or cuddle with me… I'd think there's a problem going on… that's a relationship.
I want sex three times a week and him Once a month. I want to experiment, he doesnāt. We are both in individual plus couples therapy now to figure stuff out. Itās a common problem. Desire is very complex. Especially if youāre in it for the long run
Did you by chance eat any asparagus in the last few days? Asparagus will make a guys cum taste disgusting not sure about women.
I recently started a relationship with someone. We both live at home but promised that the first time we have sex with each other would be in one of our homes. Unfortunately we also both have very high sex drives. Yesterday we both happened to finish work at the same time, so I offered to drive her home. When we arrived, she wanted to cuddle a bit in the backseat before I left. One thing led to another and eventually we just started having sex in the backseat. Itās a small car but it was the most mind blowing sex in my life. Sheās since been sending pictures of herself from work and Iām losing my mind a bit
I usually do close my eyes during sex, I think it helps me focus a little bit better. It's also become a habit because I usually need to fantasize about a scenario in my head to get off. I know that this is common for some women but sometimes I worry that my fantasy might be distracting me from being present. I will try your grounding technique. Some people have also said they take short breaks during foreplay to talk about what they are feeling with their partner. I also agree 100% with you about the candles I have been taken out of the mood multiple times due to poor lighting and my boyfriend just didn't understand.
the analogy makes sense. i guess i didnāt really consider the dangers of it bc of how nice he seems, but iām glad iām learning this sooner rather than later
Iām surprised the old fella can still get it up
Iām surprised the old fella can still get it up
Iām surprised the old fella can still get it up
I use to think this way and one day it clicked. I was able to put all 10 inches long and 6ā girth down my throat. Then it became easier for people who were even bigger. A lot of it has to do with angle. Also starting off slow and sucking him from soft to hard. While heās becoming erect and still soft and smaller. It is easier to relax your throat and let it slide in. If youāre slamming a fully erect penis into your throat, you will not be able to relax. I also know plenty of women who buy dildos to practice deep throating with. Only because itās easier to scrape teeth accidentally on a dildo while learning VS a penis. They also make throat numbing spray for women who need help relaxing their throat. You can buy it at any sex shop. Also, you should look into a lubricant you can buy for playing with your partner. He will appreciate the lubricant while heās getting head/ hand jobs.
She's testing you.
Oral is in my opinion the most intimate, unselfish act. I feel special either when I give or receive oral. I really get turned on when my wife asks me to do oral on her.
You seem very conflicted at several levels. She says her experience with the other guy was painful and yet she kept going to him multiple times. The issue I see is can you trust her again and, if not, what is the next step? Of course, trust is a two-way street. If you have also cheated on her, then you effectively have an open relationship and that has its own consequences whether you know of them or not. Hope you make the right decision for yourself.
I'm not Yes you are, face facts, some the stone walling.
Well you have to swing all the way to the other side for both arguments to meet in the middle. Iām playing more devils advocate than anything. I think neither of them and both of them are at fault. She should have explained her preferences earlier so to not hurt his feelings, he shouldnāt be pushing her for oral if sheās not comfortable, sheās valid for not wanting to do oral, heās valid for feeling hurt. It goes both ways.
Planing on an ass job in a minute, easy as we both love it
Not sure if this is real, but this sub is not a hookup sub. Sex related questions. Good luck.
Would probably say somewhere in between 5-8 days depending on your body
Maybe couple therapy cause him crying is sad and hurting him a lot I feel so bad for him keep comforting him write a long letter and read him it promise him u r over the fantasy I hope it works out
Small talk is good but a full conversation is pushing it after so much energy š
Thank you for this. It helps knowing that other people had a similar reaction to mine. The “Magic Dick” thing killed me lol
Thanks for the tip. I made him wash his hands before š
Wow, I think he has completely solved your problem for you: He's removed himself from the list of guys who get to play in your lady garden. IMO? He's self-centered, dismissive of you & your desires & boundaries, he's insulting, I'll bet he's lying about 'other girls don't mind it.' Lose his number, never talk to him again. There are LOTS of better fish in the sea.
May I ask, how do you know you consented? Substance use with sex or chemsex is great for lots of people when done properly but legally you cannot consent when intoxicated. Personally, I'd be less concerned about you embarrassing yourself around this person and more worried about whether or not you genuinely did consent to sex after having said no once. To me reading this it sounds as though he waited until you were intoxicated enough to lose your sense of the world around you to initiate sex.
I love that a guy can't even say they feel awkward about something without people attacking him over it.
Less awkward than getting someone pregnant by accident