While his behavior could have been more sensitive, I'd say that is your second problem for now. First, visit a doctor. Discuss and understand your sexual health, also get the bleeding issue checked, it could be worse than it seems. Also try to be more engaged in activities that take up your time, energy and attention. Maybe start gymming and/or swimming. Hang out with friends. Take it easy on both of you.
bro must be hella nervous (considering he’s a virgin)
While his behavior could have been more sensitive, I'd say that is your second problem for now. First, visit a doctor. Discuss and understand your sexual health, also get the bleeding issue checked, it could be worse than it seems. Also try to be more engaged in activities that take up your time, energy and attention. Maybe start gymming and/or swimming. Hang out with friends. Take it easy on both of you.