Honestly I feel like I have to tell him my wants /desires. I tell him well we are married who else am I supposed to be with ? I asked him are you okay with zero intimacy? He says no. I don’t cope well when we have those gaps -I am mean and angry. He eventually feels the lack of intimacy and we end up doing something. It’s a vicious cycle.
After reading a lot of these comments, I think a lot of people are focusing on the sex before marriage portion, not on her situation and question. I think the very first thing you need to do is have an open and honest conversation with your spouse. Talk about your needs and desires first and see if that gets anywhere. As you said he was a virgin and you were not. So just given that lack of experience, some guidance is needed for both of you to have pleasure. I hope you can find a happy middle ground for both of you.
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Using all natural tea tree soap helps me. It usually takes a few weeks for things to balance out, smell wise.
Honestly I feel like I have to tell him my wants /desires. I tell him well we are married who else am I supposed to be with ? I asked him are you okay with zero intimacy? He says no. I don’t cope well when we have those gaps -I am mean and angry. He eventually feels the lack of intimacy and we end up doing something. It’s a vicious cycle.
Is it p im good
Plan b does work, getting checked isn’t always enough and op can’t get on BC
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After reading a lot of these comments, I think a lot of people are focusing on the sex before marriage portion, not on her situation and question. I think the very first thing you need to do is have an open and honest conversation with your spouse. Talk about your needs and desires first and see if that gets anywhere. As you said he was a virgin and you were not. So just given that lack of experience, some guidance is needed for both of you to have pleasure. I hope you can find a happy middle ground for both of you.
Yeah it’s such an old sexist take. Like you can change somebodies sexual preference by having “such mind blowing” sex. Lmao.
why did you even tell him youre a virgin? if you want to have sex then just have it. sounds like you're not ready
Any specific one to make it more enjoyable for the woman?