You already know the answer, but you're desperately trying to fool yourself into thinking you're not a side piece. Believing something just because you want it to be true is a dangerous tendency, not just in love but in life in general. If you can teach yourself to recognize this signs that you're fooling yourself your life will be much better for it.
Hell yes! I love it when I can bring a woman into a lustful and sensual state of arousal! It’s not just about getting her off, but the entire seduction and actions involved in getting her there (possibly multiple times). I love doing that! It makes me feel like a total stud far more than me just getting off!
Do you mind it being this way? If no, then it's not a problem. If it's causing you distress or you wish it were different, there are likely things you can do to improve the situation.
You already know the answer, but you're desperately trying to fool yourself into thinking you're not a side piece. Believing something just because you want it to be true is a dangerous tendency, not just in love but in life in general. If you can teach yourself to recognize this signs that you're fooling yourself your life will be much better for it.
Sounds like fwb agreement
Well, porn != sex… so there's that.
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Hell yes! I love it when I can bring a woman into a lustful and sensual state of arousal! It’s not just about getting her off, but the entire seduction and actions involved in getting her there (possibly multiple times). I love doing that! It makes me feel like a total stud far more than me just getting off!
Do you mind it being this way? If no, then it's not a problem. If it's causing you distress or you wish it were different, there are likely things you can do to improve the situation.