It is a go, no it is a GO! RUN! Never look back or answer her! Because this is a narcist, she thinks she is the best woman of the world… and she is NOT
As a lonely virgin, porn is my only outlet for release though I agree the more you watch it you start craving for more hardcore stuff as vanilla porn doesn't do it for me anymore.
Take a break for a week or two. Get some unscented lotion or a lube of some kind. Don’t masturbate with spit anymore. See if after a few weeks/months if that helps
According to Harvard, “ejaculating more than 20 times per month reduced prostate cancer risk by about 20% compared to ejaculating only four to seven times per month, for both men in their 20s and 40s” I am also a big advocate of orgasms for your health and for your sanity! 🙌
I was in the same situation with you and didn’t disclose, which I regretted. I also have been a practiced masterbater and that was why I thought “that won’t be a big deal”. But boy I was wrong. For one thing, sex is a two-person game, it needs communication and coordination. even for non virgin first time couples it still needs getting used to. if you are virgin chances are the sex will feel off in some way or another. For me the problem is I didn’t even know what I liked with another person involved in sex, so I couldn’t even tell the other person. Another thing, no matter how much you masterbated before, ITS GONNA HURT on some level. You need him gentle. if you let him know beforehand, he will be able to give you better experience. And you will also not leave him baffled about what exactly is off about this sexual encounter. Honesty is good for both.
Yikes how can she have like no interests?? What kind of hobbies does she have? Surely there's at least one movie, tv show, actor, anything that she is interested in?
The muscles around your entrance relax as you get aroused. When inserting a tampon I'd assume you aren't really aroused. I'd recommend trying to masturbate if you haven't already and see what it feels like trying to slowly insert a finger. That may be an entirely different experience, but if not I would suggest looking into vaginismus which is essentially a situation where the muscles stay tight so insertion is painful. There are ways to train them to relax and allow it to be pleasurable. If you're new to masturbation all together then I highly recommend the YouTube channel Sexplanations. She has some great videos on how to explore your body and deal with different struggles to cum. If I remember right she also has a video on vaginismus. Super great resource for sex education!
If it makes you uncomfortable then tell her to stop. I’m similar to your gf and find stuff like that a massive turn on too. I imagine it’s fairly common.
Oh my god of course not, definitely not defending the behavior at all, in fact I think the psychology behind it is even more of a reason to get away from the guy
She appears to be open to keeping me informed. If I make a big deal about it isn’t there a chance she does it anyway?
why do men always have to be the initiators? It's nice to know we are desired too!
It is a go, no it is a GO! RUN! Never look back or answer her! Because this is a narcist, she thinks she is the best woman of the world… and she is NOT
Are you sure your current partner isn’t gay? The only 2 times I’ve been with boys like that (disgusted by fanny) they both later came out as gay
As a lonely virgin, porn is my only outlet for release though I agree the more you watch it you start craving for more hardcore stuff as vanilla porn doesn't do it for me anymore.
Take a break for a week or two. Get some unscented lotion or a lube of some kind. Don’t masturbate with spit anymore. See if after a few weeks/months if that helps
Had my wife get fucked by my best friend and take his load raw
To assert dominance.
Not how that works. Read the post, she claims to be an avid masturbator.
Try edgying her till ur close to orgasm then go all for it
According to Harvard, “ejaculating more than 20 times per month reduced prostate cancer risk by about 20% compared to ejaculating only four to seven times per month, for both men in their 20s and 40s” I am also a big advocate of orgasms for your health and for your sanity! 🙌
Homegirl databasing names like Pokémon
yeahhhh this is definitely not it, i promise i’d be with a man if i wanted to be. and i think my perception of pleasure is just finest, thanks though
I was in the same situation with you and didn’t disclose, which I regretted. I also have been a practiced masterbater and that was why I thought “that won’t be a big deal”. But boy I was wrong. For one thing, sex is a two-person game, it needs communication and coordination. even for non virgin first time couples it still needs getting used to. if you are virgin chances are the sex will feel off in some way or another. For me the problem is I didn’t even know what I liked with another person involved in sex, so I couldn’t even tell the other person. Another thing, no matter how much you masterbated before, ITS GONNA HURT on some level. You need him gentle. if you let him know beforehand, he will be able to give you better experience. And you will also not leave him baffled about what exactly is off about this sexual encounter. Honesty is good for both.
Go to a movie
Yikes how can she have like no interests?? What kind of hobbies does she have? Surely there's at least one movie, tv show, actor, anything that she is interested in?
The muscles around your entrance relax as you get aroused. When inserting a tampon I'd assume you aren't really aroused. I'd recommend trying to masturbate if you haven't already and see what it feels like trying to slowly insert a finger. That may be an entirely different experience, but if not I would suggest looking into vaginismus which is essentially a situation where the muscles stay tight so insertion is painful. There are ways to train them to relax and allow it to be pleasurable. If you're new to masturbation all together then I highly recommend the YouTube channel Sexplanations. She has some great videos on how to explore your body and deal with different struggles to cum. If I remember right she also has a video on vaginismus. Super great resource for sex education!
Yes
If it makes you uncomfortable then tell her to stop. I’m similar to your gf and find stuff like that a massive turn on too. I imagine it’s fairly common.
No problem at all. In fact I’m usually the one buying them for her so I can enjoy the view
Oh my god of course not, definitely not defending the behavior at all, in fact I think the psychology behind it is even more of a reason to get away from the guy
Please leave him. Don’t be afraid to be alone, you are young and I believe you will be better off without him.