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  1. Yeah, the two of you need to have a serious conversation about the future of your marriage. The goal isn’t to force him to have more sex but for the two of you to realize (as you already do) that a marriage without a happy sex life isn’t likely to be a happy marriage. This could have at least two outcomes: 1) he shuts down. At least he’s giving you the gift of clarity that he’s not willing to work with you on this. Maybe you ask yourself if your relationship is worth the absence of a fulfilling sex life. Some couples accept that price. Others will not. 2) he takes you seriously and realizes that the health of his marriage depends on it. Maybe that means couples counseling to assist with what will likely be a series of long conversations where the two of you try to find your way back to consistent intimacy. The point here: if the status quo is driving you to this point, then you have nothing to lose in raising the stakes. As noted above, part of the goal here is simply to see where his head is at. If he can’t handle even engaging you on this? Things will likely never get better. If he’s at least willing to be present with you about this, that at least suggests the potential for change and improvement.

  2. I had a similar problem at first. There were some other problems I won't get into here, but I did find a solution to the going soft when it came time to put on a condom: Firstly, not all condoms are the same, there are different sizes and shapes; some are tight on the middle of the shaft, others just below the head etc. Try different ones, try different sizes, brands etc. The ones that have been the easiest for me to get on are ribbed ones, similar to these: https://www.durex.co.uk/products/durex-pleasure-me-ribbed-dotted-condoms-12-pack Unfortunately it's also kinda difficult to feel much through those… I got myself a pack of 10 condoms (not ribbed, hadn't got to that part yet), set myself up for a nice long masturbation session, found some good porn and edged myself while practicing putting on condoms. Edge, condom on, edge with condom, condom off, edge and just keep going through the whole pack. Next time I was with my gf it was no problem getting the condom on. If this doesn't do the trick, you could try doing the same thing but while you're there. Agree that you're not going to have sex, say it verbally so that it's not stirring in his subconscious the whole time: you're not going to have sex, you're just enjoying watching him put on condoms and playing with himself a little. Also, I'm not your boss, if that works and you both agree you want to go for it, go ahead. Also also, good luck! Hope you find a way that works for you two.

  3. He could have had problem getting hard enough too. I'm assuming from the description there was a lot of drinking going on. That can cause problems for some men.

  4. This is even a turn off for me and i‘m a man. It seems like he doesn‘t care for you at all. Maybe it‘s time that you take care of yourself and search for somebody else who cares about you.

  5. There’s stages though. Like yep it’s going to be soon and I can control it by slowing down or stopping. Then there’s here we go and everything is autopilot.

  6. Yep, that might be the issue then. Don't worry about not being hard at that point, the main point of foreplay is to get you both turned on (get her wet, and get you hard)

  7. Sounds pretty effed up, man. You should have her looking into tantric massage – could be a good alternative. Done right they’ll make your ass lift up off the bed. In short it’s an oily handjob but it’s much more purposeful & lasts longer. I love giving them, it’s relatively easy if she absolutely hates giving you oral (I’m sorry).

  8. So here's the truth my man. Most attractive and semi-attractive women that age are gonna have anywhere from 15-30 bodies in our culture unless they're strictly religious or something. Somewhere in that range is when they realize that sleeping around isn't fulfilling and that they'd rather have something more meaningful. You would too if attractive women were actively trying to convince you to have sex with them and even spending money on you to do so on a regular basis. This is what young women experience. Men have it a little different. Most of us can't put up 25 bodies in our 20s. However our 30s is when we hit our prime and this is the time that it's easier for most men to hoe around. It's not really worth it though, at least in my experience. You haven't missed out on that much. Having sex with people who don't actually care about you starts to feel pretty lonely. A stable partner who cares about you is much nicer in my opinion. If you really like this girl, I say get over it and be happy with her. She's not going to care about what happened in the past if you are her future.

  9. For your purposes imagine that I am in one of the 31 states where the age of consent is 16, or one of the 6 states where it's 17.

  10. I don’t think this has ever happened for me. Probably depends on the guys balls along with how your bodies fit together

  11. Join r/loveafterporn He’s prolly a sex addict like my partner He’s seeing a SA therapist and it’s been helping him but if yours isn’t willing to see a therapist then there’s no hope other than accepting it

  12. You don't have to do more than you want to/are willing to. Set a clear boundary and if she doesn't respect that then that is a problem.

  13. I have BPD and i have a similar tendency, on the worst days I will push my fiancé further and further past where we usually do (consensually, of course) BUT it does require heavy aftercare. There have been many occasions where we will have very rough/aggressive sex and after we are done I will just kinda break down crying because of the emotional release. It is very therapeutic but can sometimes be overwhelming and “scary”

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